QUESTION:
Why is that some Men never attract women, though they are handsome,well dressed?
REPLY:
It falls under the category of having the equipment, but not knowing how to use it.
People exhibit this in the realm of Analytical Problem-Solving and Intelligence. People all have a brain. We can all think. However, some people use their heads more. They're more creative and know how to solve problems that others can't.
That's an example of someone knowing how to use resources given to them.
It's like giving two people a box of Legos. One person will just look at the box and maybe build a house with it.
The other person given that same box of Legos will build a House, a Car, a Boat, a Helicopter, a Landing Strip, and make it where all of them interconnect to become a Super Lego Transformer.
Another example would be the game of Chess. I love playing chess. If you gave me 8 pawns, 2 bishops, 2 rooks, 2 knights, a Queen, and a King, I'd know what to do with my pieces compared to someone else given the same pieces who has never played chess or doesn't know how the pieces work.
The pieces on the chess board are similar to your question regarding Men who are handsome, well-dressed, have good hygiene, and a great smile.
Some people know how to use what they have at their disposal and some don't.
There was a television show episode of "Just Shoot Me" where David Spade, as Finch, is found out to have a really huge manhood. His boss and his photographer friend can't understand why he can't score with women.
At the end of the show, they find out it's because Finch's technique for approaching women is all wrong, which is why he gets shut down and rarely scores with women.