Some advice to men:

[rocksizedheart]

http://kateharding.net/2009/10/08/guest-blogger-starling-schrodinger%E2%80%99s-rapist-or-a-guy%E2%80%99s-guide-to-approaching-strange-women-without-being-maced/

This a very, very insightful piece. As someone who has had bad experiences with men in the past, I'm telling you, this is very, very insightful.

Have a read.