This entry is for the ladies\women\girls..." Here's my ten cents, my two cents is free"

Feb 01, 2005 21:46

This is an entry dedicated to you and questions you may have about boys, everything you might like to know. I have decided to something nice for once...

*Disclaimer: This does not apply to all men and women, it is just a general guide*

-First off...realize that relationships are complicated, and don't get upset if you two fight. Relationships are based on compromise, trust, and deep inner feelings. The chances that somebody's feeling will get hurt are great. Therefore, take the fights with the good times, after all good and bad go hand in hand (rather we like it or not). Work it out as best as possible. Talk it out...tell him how you are feeling because he doesn't like to be left in the dark and have to guess what he has done wrong (we aren't perfect you know, we make mistakes sometimes it's hard to count). If he is frustrated give him space, but confront him about it before he has to confront you, it shows you care.

-Next off....if you ask a guy out...talk to him. DON'T wait until the date to go and talk to him. Get to know him really well before you go out, it's a lot easier. So many people just ask people out with out rhyme or reason ( just for the heck of it)...but be careful. YOU don't know what you are getting yourself into.

For example: There have been some girl's that have asked me to hang out\go out, on line such (not on here), I mean obviously this is dangerous because you have no idea who you are meeting. This one was a given.

-Not all guys like to talk there problems out, there is personality for a reason, take this into consideration. We open up when were are most comfortable with you.

- We all want what we can't have, and sometimes it sucks being alone. Honestly it does...trust me. At the same time, don't put yourself back into a situation that will get you hurt, you must protect yourself, after all it's your right not to get hurt by us, so use it!

-Second\third..etc. chances can only carry you so far...do not allow yourself to get burned more then once...first time it's his fault, second time it's your fault for not being careful about it (in most cases).

-If you don't want us to do something, don't go out and do it yourself.
Ex. If you do not want your man to hang out with his ex, don't hang out with yours, because regardless of relatinonships between ex's there is always the hidden fear of ex's. Try not to be jealous (it's hard I know) of the ex, this only creates tension,for both. After all there is a reason that person is an ex, and that the guy is with you.

Trust us...unless we give you a reason not to.

That's if for now...I'm sure you might disagree with what I said, but lately I have been observing\ dealing with situations; therefore, I have decided to make this an informative post. Any questions...feel free to leave one, and Ill get back to you.

One more thing...thanks for the comments on the last post all of you, i felt that we all had a "moment" you guys rule!

That's all for now. I'm here to help.
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