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yea i kinda feel bad, i can see things in both sides, it was a good idea, a nice gesture, i for one dont like suprise parties and ive told all the people that i think would throw one not to, i mean if you just want to relax and be alone then that makes sense too. i think he should have been nice about it and asked people to leave rather than ignoring it and bottling it all up inside which is what makes him explosive. so i couldnt tell you who was right or wrong or what should have been done but the major problem i saw is everyone came and made a mess and no one helped clean it up. i dont know if anyone came over and cleaned or helped but i know that throwing a party isnt cool if the person has to clean it up. plus if he asks you to do something like clean something up or take something down or what not remember its his birthday, its his house, just do it for the guy. i hope someone helped cuz i know that was one reason he wasnt happy