somethings i learned today...

[rock_starr]

"...its not possible to feel loving or worthy of love at the same time that you feel resentful or angry- they are incompatible emotional states; you can feel one and then the other, but not both at once."

also

"its only after you experience some significant disappointment and learn how to love your spouse in spite of, and in full awareness of, his or her flaws that you will pass this test of adulthood."

i highly agree with both statements.