265. || I CHALLENGE YOU TO MONITOR YOUR NEGATIVITY MONITOR

[rock_n_radio]

i've noticed a trend since i've decided to try and keep negativity at a bay in my life. i've noticed... that it's not as easy to keep it at bay as one might think. sure it's fine and good to say 'no more negativity' but that's not realistic. and even i knew that i would still have days when things just do not go my way... bad days. we all have

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[rock_n_radio]

out of ALL my friends on LJ you're the only one that wants to try out the experiment and i'll admit... i'm disappointed.

but i'm also thrilled that you're willing to give it a try and see what happens! i think for the most part people just don't KNOW that they're negative. that they've been like this for so long that they don't know any better. but... i guess some people are happy in their own misery. i... am not.

and if they don't want to partake in the experiment to see how negative they are... they better be ready for me to say things like 'stop being negative' or 'if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything' because i seriously have had enough negativity in my world. it effects me... it effects the people around me... it effects one and all. so if they don't want to come to their own conclusion by doing the experiment... they better be ready for me to be very blunt and very honest with them. not rude. not negative. just honest. and some people deal with honesty worse than holy water it would seem.

so far this has been great for me. i feel MUCH better and i'm always AWARE of what i say to people and what i do. i don't feel like such a hate monger anymore... and that is such a blessing.

good luck with your experiment! i can't wait to hear about your progress/findings!