please help me if you have any idea what i can do!
okay........heres the deal........theres this guy i really really like. i dont know why b/c he doesnt seem like the guy i would really go for. at first he tried to take me out a few times and i kept bein too busy to go (yes i really was too busy....im a music major w/ 2 jobs which is basically impossible in itself) but we have started to hang out more and more lately.....like weve sat around and talked together to all hours of the night twice. im absolutely comfortable around him and really dont feel like i have to hide anythin. the more and more i talk to him and learn more about him the more i like him........heres the catch.......there problems:
1. i dont know how he feels
- he flirts most of the time we are together but now-a-days who knows ya know
- soon that will change b/c im goin on a limb to tell him just to see what he says
2. im leavin in a month and 1/2 for the whole summer
- 3 monthes on tour w/ the same 200 people basically livin on a charter bus
- wont be back until 10 days before school startes and probably 3 or 4 before band camp yikes!
and heres the kicker!
3. my best friend really likes him too!
- yes i know very bad!
- in high school, i was the one that would always back down when me and my friend liked the same guy
- having said that, WHY AM I FIGHTIN SO HARD TO DATE HIM!!!!
its settled.........i really like this guy! hes is ubber sweet and really knows how to treat somebody. ive finally run into a guy that measures up to standards that have been set and my best friend likes him. some PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me some advice on what i should do!
another note........me and this same best friend hated eachother for 6 months last year b/c i dated her ex boyfriend while she was still in love with him......that could be a tiny little factor in the problem!
1. i dont know how he feels
- he flirts most of the time we are together but now-a-days who knows ya know
- soon that will change b/c im goin on a limb to tell him just to see what he says
2. im leavin in a month and 1/2 for the whole summer
- 3 monthes on tour w/ the same 200 people basically livin on a charter bus
- wont be back until 10 days before school startes and probably 3 or 4 before band camp yikes!
and heres the kicker!
3. my best friend really likes him too!
- yes i know very bad!
- in high school, i was the one that would always back down when me and my friend liked the same guy
- having said that, WHY AM I FIGHTIN SO HARD TO DATE HIM!!!!
its settled.........i really like this guy! hes is ubber sweet and really knows how to treat somebody. ive finally run into a guy that measures up to standards that have been set and my best friend likes him. some PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give me some advice on what i should do!
another note........me and this same best friend hated eachother for 6 months last year b/c i dated her ex boyfriend while she was still in love with him......that could be a tiny little factor in the problem!