Question
Just a question,
What tends to piss you off the most? Either a pet peeve, or something you consider the worst thing to do ever, or something that some people do that you just can't fathom why they do it.
So, i guess it's more of, what disturbs you the most? and how come? Go with anger, disapointment, surprise whichever.
Myself,
I can't stand it when someone fails to keep their word. I understand if someone makes plans and has to cancel due to extenuating circumstances, or if they tried and failed. The thing that just bugs the crap out of me is when someone... well, lies i guess. More specifically when it's to the degree where you are depending on their word.
I try to be a man of my word, honor any promises i make. I think I dislike it so much because I will find myself breaking my word or even lying at times, making me the one thing I disgust almost as much as lying... a hypocrite. I respect it when someone just tells it as it is. This doesn't mean you have to be overly cruel or harsh when speaking your mind, some tact should be observed. I'd rather have someone say, "No I can't/won't do that", "I don't like that idea", "I would do it differently", instead of the "Yeah that's cool", or "Ah, true".
I guess i prefer the truth cause I'm a person who will ask why. Someone thinks something should be done differently, or can be better, or shouldn't be done at all, or a comment is in bad taste... I'll ask for why they think so. Not to prove my point, but to understand theirs and hell, maybe i'll be shown something from a different point of view and learn something.
Your thoughts?
What tends to piss you off the most? Either a pet peeve, or something you consider the worst thing to do ever, or something that some people do that you just can't fathom why they do it.
So, i guess it's more of, what disturbs you the most? and how come? Go with anger, disapointment, surprise whichever.
Myself,
I can't stand it when someone fails to keep their word. I understand if someone makes plans and has to cancel due to extenuating circumstances, or if they tried and failed. The thing that just bugs the crap out of me is when someone... well, lies i guess. More specifically when it's to the degree where you are depending on their word.
I try to be a man of my word, honor any promises i make. I think I dislike it so much because I will find myself breaking my word or even lying at times, making me the one thing I disgust almost as much as lying... a hypocrite. I respect it when someone just tells it as it is. This doesn't mean you have to be overly cruel or harsh when speaking your mind, some tact should be observed. I'd rather have someone say, "No I can't/won't do that", "I don't like that idea", "I would do it differently", instead of the "Yeah that's cool", or "Ah, true".
I guess i prefer the truth cause I'm a person who will ask why. Someone thinks something should be done differently, or can be better, or shouldn't be done at all, or a comment is in bad taste... I'll ask for why they think so. Not to prove my point, but to understand theirs and hell, maybe i'll be shown something from a different point of view and learn something.
Your thoughts?