I read this in one of my women's magazines.
RULES FOR ARGUING
1. No physical violence.
2. No name calling.
3. No third parties. (Don't include anyone else into your argument.)
4. No past histories. (Don't bring up issues from previous arguments)
5. Stick to the subject.
6. Don't hit below the belt.
7. Don't go to bed angry. Settle arguments the same day.
8. Don't make a scene.
9. Listen to what your partner says.
10. Never threaten to withdraw love, sex or use the silent treatment.
11. Hold hands while fighting.
12. Maintain a sense of humor and try arguing naked.