Rebecca broke up with me.
So... My life these days... Heh... Where to start? How about with the beggining, that sounds reasonable enough. Day 1 (a.k.a. tuesday) I wake up after an extremely long night of fighting with Rebecca worst than ever before (imagine the worst fight you've ever had with a loved one, minus any hitting or anything). Anyhow, I wake up and I look at her
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What the hell were you thinking? Now, perhaps I do not know all of the gory details on this one, but just how was it a big deal to "allow" Rebecca to take a one-week trip to see her family and hang out and do some Jesus-related activities? (Like pin the thorny-crown on the Jesus, bobbing for Jesus, etc etc whatever else those Jesus-types do in their spare time?) Yeah, it would have been a humungous waste of time, but aside from that, was she threatening to leave you and become a nun? Did she say that Jesus had better hair than you? I mean, what the fuck was so wrong about her spending some time with the family and offering a few worthless "Halleluias!"? You love her, right? Love usually doesn't involve ultimatums, which is what you basically gave her, here.
Now, I know that there are some peeps who are prolly blowing lots of sunshine up your ass and telling you what you want to hear, but that doesn't sound very productive to me, and I am sure that you cannot honestly believe that it is, either. The problem is that you got to be TOO in love with Rebecca: you wanted to keep her close always and always, and were scared that, given any outside influence, that she would leave you.
That don't sound none too healthy, son.
Now, correct me if I am wrong here...asn I said above, I am sure that there are a ton of things that you have not told me about this situation, but based upon your initial post...I have to admit, it creeped me out a little, and I mean in a "Fatal Attraction" sort of way. My advice to you, should this all blow over, is to give her a bit of space and trust in HER feelings for you as much as you hope that she trusts in yours. Otherwise, well...what can I tell ya? This will just happen again and again and again...and I don't necessarily mean with the same person.
Well, best of luck to you. Me, I think that you two are trying to grow up WAY too fucking fast here, but that is just me, so take it for what it is worth. Just don't be so possessive!!! Anyway, lemme know if I totally dropped the ball on this one or not, but as it stands, I don't see much here that Rebecca has to be sorry for.
Like I said, I'll always give it to you straight. Anything less would be an insult.
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1. I "stumbled" here after asking Dave what your uysername was since I heard him talking about LJs off-handedly. He supplied it.
2. Dre does not have a Livejournal because she thinks (and rightly so) that they are super-lame. (The "devil," actually, in her own words.)
3. Mindy does, yes.
4. I HAD a paid account, but then I realized what a huge fucking waste of money that was and said "Wow, I can post for FREE!!"
5. Yes, I have an awesome journal. Someday, the links might actually GO somewhere, should I care enough to make them.
6. As far as Rebecca being wrong...well...I'll simply say "Ok, if you think so..." I mean, I'm no Marriage Counselor.
7. Good luck on it all.
8. I'll add you if you can provide me with a number that is exactly six times the molecular weight of Plutonium, divided by Avagadro's number...or when I am not too lazy to do it.
Tom
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