They way I see it.
The sum of the whole is always greater than that of it's parts. With that in mind divide yourself up and think of each part of you as something sybolic relating to the people around you. Your arm is precious to whom when they need a hug? Your hair is lovely to whom when they want to pet? Your hand is helpful to whom when they need some help? Your mind is partial to whom when in need of guidence. Now bring it all back together and see your true worth. See yourself the way that others see you. As a friend..or a lover..or both. Now having said that tell me which is greater...Being brilliant in the eyes of the one..or seeing brilliance in the eyes of the world. Read it and think about it carefully. It is not a quiz, there is possibly no right or wrong answers..it's merely perception.