Man...
I was talking to someone today and i was trying to understand their point of view. I was kind of getting it for a little while. But as it went along most of the stuff that i was hearing was all about that person. Like they were just doing it for their own selfish reasons. Im not one to bag on someone else like this but this one is kinda getting to me a little more than usual. Like these reason cant be anymore one sided. And i dont want this person to think that they are a bad person. I just want this person to try and rethink the reason. Becasue they have been thinking them for a long time im sure and if they might think it over a little more they could think of a better reason then the ones they have. This isnt easy for me to say because i cant be mean to people its just not waht i do. I hate making people feel bad. But like i tried to put myself in their shoes but i didnt know what shoes to put on. Atleast 2/3 of the reasons they were giving me were jsut about how they didnt want to ebcause it would effect them and they didnt want that. I am not saying this person should change their mind but as i said before they could find better less selfish reasons then the ones they gave me. And i also said before i hate making people feel bad but they wanted to know and they will feel bad and i didnt want to do this but being the nice guy i am (maybe not thought of like that anymore after this) i couldnt just say no. So i put it here.