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May 20, 2010 11:15

Right. Soooo.....only eight days left until the wedding and yesterday I lost both my maid of honor and my bridesmaid. Tiffany and Michelle both bailed on me because they really really hate Nick. It's all fucked and now I feel like everything is going to be fucked forever. *sigh* Oh well. Whatever. So now I've got my cousin Candis being my maid of ( Read more... )

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frenzykat May 20 2010, 16:18:04 UTC
I'm sorry things are going less than ideal for you. Just remember this is a day that you are going to remember for the rest of your life. When you wake up on your wedding day, forget all the stress that has happened. Let it all melt off of you and just focus on you and Nick. It will be the start of your life together.

If your friends don't support your decision 100%, why would you want them standing next to you while you make one of the most important steps in your life? You want people that are there for you, not those that will bring negative energy. Maybe it is for the best. My mom always says, "friends come and go, but family is forever." and it's true.

It will be a lovely day, don't even doubt it!

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rizzyr May 22 2010, 10:27:05 UTC
Dude, I will be rolling off all the stress that day, I swear! I am not going to have ANY stress that day!! :)

Well, really? I didn't really have anyone else to be there.....not really at least. *sigh* Ugh, I understand what you're saying though.

Thanks!! :) Can't wait for it to be Friday!!!

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kobean May 20 2010, 23:08:56 UTC
ahhhhh it's so close. congratulations again, sweetheart. :D and im sorry about losing tiffany and michelle. it sucks they'd let their feelings about your soon to be husband get in the way of them being a part of such an important day in your life. but that's their loss. and guh, just eight days :D

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rizzyr May 22 2010, 10:28:38 UTC
Thank you thank you!!! :D OMG six daaaaaaays now!!! <333 It's getting so close and I'm starting to freak a bit!

I guess it will be their problem cos I am so over it now. Whatever.

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platipie May 21 2010, 00:38:31 UTC
Aww Stephy I hate that there is so much drama going on! You definitely don't need it! HUGS I just wish I could be there to witness the special day. Just know I'm always here if you need or want anything! And hey remember to have a blast. Don't let other people get you down because it's a time for you to be happy and enjoy every moment!!!

Love you so much!! Take care of yourself *massive hugs*

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rizzyr May 22 2010, 10:29:06 UTC
Drama suuuuuucks!!! :p

LOVE YOU TOO! *hugs back*

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karneol_vision May 21 2010, 16:25:14 UTC
So close :)

You know, such friends, if they're not there for you and can't accept what you have chosen as the right thing for you, why should you want them there with you then? I know it's tough to think this way of people whom one considers friends, but that's how it is *HUGS*

It will be fine. You will make your day the most beautiful possible :)

I wish you all the best. And I wish you that all this messy stuff will cease to be so messy and you get some rest from it.

Congratulations! And YAY! Disney world ;)

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rizzyr May 22 2010, 10:30:40 UTC
:D

Yes, mess is bad. Thank you thank you! Hopefully all will be unmessy and stress-free by Friday! I know things will be awesome by then. *crosses fingers* I hope.

DISNEY! <333 Yay!

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sthrncmfrttl May 22 2010, 01:13:38 UTC
If you truly feel that this is the right thing for you to do, then go through with it, head held high - outsiders be damned, because ultimately, it's your choice and life. If they truly are your friends, and they still don't like your choice, they'll learn how to roll their eyes and continue to be friends with you. (Mind you that requires some time away from Nick and a difficult task for any bride to be away from her husband...)

So...Disney World? Sweet! Now the burning question is:

Are you driving or flying? :D

With all of the excitement, don't forget to breath!
I want pictures!

<3 Your little Big Sis!

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rizzyr May 22 2010, 10:32:39 UTC
Head held high....gotcha! :p

We're driving down there! You know I don't fly.....come on!!! LOL Seriously?

Of course there will be pictures!! You know I should have a book of them by the time you come down this summer....if you can make it down that is. My friend Kathy (frenzykat) is doing the pictures so they will be way awesome!! Can't wait!!!

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