a rant...take a deep breath!
I"m here sitting in my newly decorated dorm room watching VH1. The show is "Hall of Fame Cheaters" or something like that is on. Its a show about all the celeberty couples who break up because one has cheated on the other. And after a half an hour there wasnt one incidence of a woman cheating on a man. And in ALLL of the cases it was stupid men cheating on beautiful women. Halle Berry, Uma Thurman, Sienna Miller, Elizabeth Hurley. Who would cheat on them?!?!? One comedian said, "You cheat on your wife with someone hotter but there is no one hotter than Halle Berry so you're just cheating down. you dont cheat down." And i think that is the most important part of explaining why men ruin good relationships, especially by cheating or some sort of ridiculous events.
I dont think that there is any logic in cheating, which is weird because men are supposed to be the logical ones, and us women totally irrational. HA! We watched The Last Kiss last night (anyone who hasnt seen it, skip this paragraph cause i'm going to disclose some important events). So, this guy, hes bored, feels like his life is ending cause he is in love with a beautiful woman and they are having a baby...man, sooo horrible! So he finds this 20 something college slut and goes out with her to a college party one night, they kiss. His girlfriend catches him in alllll of his lies and she kicks him out after a heated arguement. so what does he do?!??! He goes BACK to the girls dorm and has sex with her. WHAT!?!?!?! Your girlfriend is pregnant, at home MISERABLE because you just cheated on her so what do you do? Yea, go have sex with someone else. Really cool guy. Like, HOW can you do that?! How is that ok?! How is is possible?! Arent you thinking about your girlfriend at all?! How can you just forget someone you've been with for 3 years?!
I think it must be about escaping and or learning. When you're in a long term relationship things get planned, predictable, ordinary and comfortable. And when you're in your 20's, you want excitement and adventure and fun. So cheating is exciting! You're lying, your doing something you know is bad, its new, it could be hot, it could be dangerous. But is it really better to have that one night than having someone to cuddle with every night? Waking up next to in the morning? Someone to talk to and be there? I just see the later weighing a little more. In "The Last Kiss" the lesson he learned by cheating on his girlfriend is how much he actually loves her. So it takes you screwing another woman to see how beautiful and wonderful your girlfriend is? Thats really sad. You should know that with all the same things she does for you, and how pretty she is in the morning. You should know when you look at her, not when you fuck up. And you are willing to possibly loose this wonderful person for a selfish, shallow reason? So you figure this out...who says she is going to take you back and accept it. "You wait here, i'm gonna go screw someone but then love you even more than before. ok?" How is that logical? And you guys get frustrated when we get really upset...you have no idea what that does to us. We have every right in the world to yell at you, cry or slap you in the face.
I also feel like you guys ruin these relationships because you are actually scare of loving someone. So instead of just breaking it off you do something terrible so make sure we wont take you back cause if we continue our relationship you could fall further in love and maybe :::gasp::: get married. And that is terrfying cause hey, we're only 21!!! God forbid we be happy! You men who do this really need to straighten up, cause us beautiful wonderful women will not wait forever. And its just really screwed up that after it all, we're the bad guys cause we cry.
I dont think that there is any logic in cheating, which is weird because men are supposed to be the logical ones, and us women totally irrational. HA! We watched The Last Kiss last night (anyone who hasnt seen it, skip this paragraph cause i'm going to disclose some important events). So, this guy, hes bored, feels like his life is ending cause he is in love with a beautiful woman and they are having a baby...man, sooo horrible! So he finds this 20 something college slut and goes out with her to a college party one night, they kiss. His girlfriend catches him in alllll of his lies and she kicks him out after a heated arguement. so what does he do?!??! He goes BACK to the girls dorm and has sex with her. WHAT!?!?!?! Your girlfriend is pregnant, at home MISERABLE because you just cheated on her so what do you do? Yea, go have sex with someone else. Really cool guy. Like, HOW can you do that?! How is that ok?! How is is possible?! Arent you thinking about your girlfriend at all?! How can you just forget someone you've been with for 3 years?!
I think it must be about escaping and or learning. When you're in a long term relationship things get planned, predictable, ordinary and comfortable. And when you're in your 20's, you want excitement and adventure and fun. So cheating is exciting! You're lying, your doing something you know is bad, its new, it could be hot, it could be dangerous. But is it really better to have that one night than having someone to cuddle with every night? Waking up next to in the morning? Someone to talk to and be there? I just see the later weighing a little more. In "The Last Kiss" the lesson he learned by cheating on his girlfriend is how much he actually loves her. So it takes you screwing another woman to see how beautiful and wonderful your girlfriend is? Thats really sad. You should know that with all the same things she does for you, and how pretty she is in the morning. You should know when you look at her, not when you fuck up. And you are willing to possibly loose this wonderful person for a selfish, shallow reason? So you figure this out...who says she is going to take you back and accept it. "You wait here, i'm gonna go screw someone but then love you even more than before. ok?" How is that logical? And you guys get frustrated when we get really upset...you have no idea what that does to us. We have every right in the world to yell at you, cry or slap you in the face.
I also feel like you guys ruin these relationships because you are actually scare of loving someone. So instead of just breaking it off you do something terrible so make sure we wont take you back cause if we continue our relationship you could fall further in love and maybe :::gasp::: get married. And that is terrfying cause hey, we're only 21!!! God forbid we be happy! You men who do this really need to straighten up, cause us beautiful wonderful women will not wait forever. And its just really screwed up that after it all, we're the bad guys cause we cry.