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Haven't posted in a while. Sorry kids. When we last left our intrepid adventurer, she informed you that she had recently broken up with her boyfriend. Now for the rest of that tale.
It's been 3 weeks since Jon and I broke up. I need to go back over to get the rest of my stuff at some point, but it's going to be super awkward/sad seeing him again right now. Sigh.
As for WHY we broke up, here is a summary that I gave someone (as I don't particularly feel like summing it up all over again): The short story is that I fell in love with someone else. The long story is that things had just become stagnant with Jonathan. It took him a year and 7 months for him just to tell me that he loved me (and I was the one who had to bring it up), and he seemed very noncommittal whenever I talked about the future. I can't remember the last time he told me that I looked nice, that I was pretty, or complimented me in any way. We were boring together. I feel like most of our time was spent sitting on the couch, either watching tv or watching him play video games while eating fast food. He never showed more than passing interest in my friends, even when we tried to involve him in things, so we had no social circle tying us together. All in all, I was just not the person I wanted to be while I was with him.
You may have noticed that first part, about falling in love with someone else. I'm happy to say that I am currently dating my friend Doryen. We just kind of fit together very beautifully. We understand each other in a way that neither of us has been able to find in someone else, and I feel more like myself when I'm with him. It's pretty incredible, and I'm very happy so far. :)
So that's the story.
It's been 3 weeks since Jon and I broke up. I need to go back over to get the rest of my stuff at some point, but it's going to be super awkward/sad seeing him again right now. Sigh.
As for WHY we broke up, here is a summary that I gave someone (as I don't particularly feel like summing it up all over again): The short story is that I fell in love with someone else. The long story is that things had just become stagnant with Jonathan. It took him a year and 7 months for him just to tell me that he loved me (and I was the one who had to bring it up), and he seemed very noncommittal whenever I talked about the future. I can't remember the last time he told me that I looked nice, that I was pretty, or complimented me in any way. We were boring together. I feel like most of our time was spent sitting on the couch, either watching tv or watching him play video games while eating fast food. He never showed more than passing interest in my friends, even when we tried to involve him in things, so we had no social circle tying us together. All in all, I was just not the person I wanted to be while I was with him.
You may have noticed that first part, about falling in love with someone else. I'm happy to say that I am currently dating my friend Doryen. We just kind of fit together very beautifully. We understand each other in a way that neither of us has been able to find in someone else, and I feel more like myself when I'm with him. It's pretty incredible, and I'm very happy so far. :)
So that's the story.