Arashi and RL bitchery
First the bitchery:
- I have a 2nd job. Or at least, a verbal offer of a second job teaching Billing and Coding. But now it's been about 2 weeks and I've yet to have anything in writing and only a vague idea of starting to train sometime soon.
- For about two months now, my partner in medical assisting has been alternately ignoring me or being outright hostile. At one point, our manager brought the whole office together to have a talk on "passive-aggresive" behavior. At which I said some things about getting the cold shoulder and how it makes it hard for me to be happy and cheerful like I normally am. Things got a little better.
- Until today, now back from the weekend while the other 5 girls in the office are planning their supercool BBQ and fretting about picking a day that 'includes everyone', all the while in my hearing distance and clearly not inviting me.
- While on an intellectual level, I understand that just because you work with people does not mean you're going to be friends. Except that I used to be included all the time. Right up until Kelly was promoted from reception to my partner as an MA.
- I can't help being hurt by all this. It makes me hate coming to work, no matter how much I love and adore the doctors I work for.
- Easy answer: Buck up and talk to them. Which is what I'd tell any one in my same situation. Except that I've tried that at said meeting and it seems to have done little good.
Arashi stuffs (cause I need cheering):
- Uh... I love them? Nino is my favorite evil little imp. And Aiba's a doll.
- Tell me about your favorite fics: yours, others, I don't care if there are links or just vaguely remembered plots.
- Or tell me something you wish someone would write, or you would write, or anything...
- Tell me your favorite Ohmiya moment(s) -- they are my weakness.
- I have a 2nd job. Or at least, a verbal offer of a second job teaching Billing and Coding. But now it's been about 2 weeks and I've yet to have anything in writing and only a vague idea of starting to train sometime soon.
- For about two months now, my partner in medical assisting has been alternately ignoring me or being outright hostile. At one point, our manager brought the whole office together to have a talk on "passive-aggresive" behavior. At which I said some things about getting the cold shoulder and how it makes it hard for me to be happy and cheerful like I normally am. Things got a little better.
- Until today, now back from the weekend while the other 5 girls in the office are planning their supercool BBQ and fretting about picking a day that 'includes everyone', all the while in my hearing distance and clearly not inviting me.
- While on an intellectual level, I understand that just because you work with people does not mean you're going to be friends. Except that I used to be included all the time. Right up until Kelly was promoted from reception to my partner as an MA.
- I can't help being hurt by all this. It makes me hate coming to work, no matter how much I love and adore the doctors I work for.
- Easy answer: Buck up and talk to them. Which is what I'd tell any one in my same situation. Except that I've tried that at said meeting and it seems to have done little good.
Arashi stuffs (cause I need cheering):
- Uh... I love them? Nino is my favorite evil little imp. And Aiba's a doll.
- Tell me about your favorite fics: yours, others, I don't care if there are links or just vaguely remembered plots.
- Or tell me something you wish someone would write, or you would write, or anything...
- Tell me your favorite Ohmiya moment(s) -- they are my weakness.