Choice.
The proper way of deciding is choosing with in an option.
first side is yours
second side is theirs
and third side would be "the other side option:; normally another person who's not involved in the problem"
Whatever it might be...the right thing is that you'll never regret whatever is your choice.
Does that makes sense?
For now..I think I should make the choice where the only one...
would be troubled is "ME" and not anyone else!