This is a good question that i've asked myself a few times before.
I think my needs are simple. Friends, family.. that's the source of my happiness. And also unfortunately, it is also the bane of my existence, as people would say it. While browsing on YouTube, as with most people who wishes to pass their time, i found this clip from Tim Robbins about one of his seminars. He's actually baiting people to join his seminars by giving a few tips and something like a glimpse of things that he'll be talking about during the seminar. Even his bait is somewhat thought provoking. I guess that's why he's successful at what he's doing.
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So lastly, what do you want in life?
And what is holding you back?
That's the kind of question, nobody can answer, except for yourself.