Dec 26, 2008 14:06
To be honest.... No matter how much I want to be proactive about Jeca's blog about marrying and partying.... I can't, so I'll say something
I guess everyone has different reasons for marrying but I am guessing that....
. . . girl's just want a sense of security (and boys too)....... where you can go home to a place where you call the shots... where no one can boss you around or just you can just curl up into a ball and no one has to say anything because the feeling is all mutual.
. . .girl's want to be caressed and be the center of the universe (we all know that we die for attention once in a while, so why not get that from the man you love?) and without a doubt we really need that attention :))
. . .where you don't have to pretend to be someone else and you have no need to impress anyone but yourself at your own home. (of course your husband knows WHO you are :)) ...unless you're hiding something :>)
. . .where you can just chat with someone about things that don't make any sense (like bashing a boss or a colleague, saying things about the government more like complaining though, or just a simple make out session with hot passionate sex that says absolutely everything that the lips can't but the heart can :>)
. . .you'll know that someone would support you no matter what happens even though your friends turn their back at you
. . . . . . . . I guess what I am trying to say is that we most probably would want to go back to a place where we call home and no matter what happens that home cannot be broken unless we say it is. And that home would always remain our home not anyone's but ours.
........Plus the fact that being pampered with love by the person who loves you will remain different from beauty spas and other things
......... To be quite honest women don't degrade themselves from marrying or starting a family because we don't go after our dreams...... because the greatest dream of all is to be loved by the person God sent......
....and about the divorce thing..... I believe the love does not fade away but the love of material things or something else would just get in the way. Besides what's the point of life if we don't take risk? .....and perhaps that person might not be the one yet :) We're human we can be blind at times which makes us do stupid or idiotic things.
--------- About the partying and drinking
. . . Let's just say that knowing teens --- we just want to have fun (but tend to go over the limitations :| ) Lastly as of the drinking thing and thinking lowly of other people... It's not that the person who's drinking is the one thinking lowly of themselves but the person judging is...