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The sad fact is this: I heart a cardiac arrest, was clinically DEAD for 18 minutes, in a coma for 6 days, on life support for seven, had heart surgery and was in the hospital for over two weeks. I know that you knew this happened and I know what your response to hearing about it was. I would have called you if the shoe was on the other foot, I wouldn't have brushed it off. I'm not going to lie, I was actually really hurt when I heard what you said (or rather didn't) about the whole thing, just because we're not friends anymore, doesn't mean we weren't. Despite knowing that you wouldn't even extend the courtesy of a phone call to say "hey man, you died and are actually really sick, take care of yourself and get well soon." I know that if I caught wind of a death in the family, car accident or health crisis I would still be there to offer you support, whether or not you would take it is beyond my control; but because I value the friendship we once had, I would still extend that care and support where as you actually took a couple minutes to think about it and made the choice not to. Ouch. I kind of questioned if our friendship really held a place in your heart, but now I know that it doesn't and never did.