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Let me start this off by listing the kind of women I pursued in the past:
. Smokin' body and all around hottie
. Large bank account or able to sponge off rich parents
. Willing to lend (without actually expecting payback) large amounts of cash
. Generous (read: likely to shower me with expensive gifts)
. Loves to party (after a few drinks we can rent a room at the Palace Hotel, charged to your credit card)
. Loyal (will defend me to those that say I'm a sleazy opportunist)
Jen was that complete package. At first it was lust, which turned to love. Not sure how that happened. I realized that she was more than a meal ticket. I started to view the world in a different way. After Jen's death, I had to take a look at myself and reflect on the past. I want to change. This means that I will eventually have to move on.
So, when I'm ready to open my heart again, this is what I'd look for in a romantic partner:
. Someone who doesn't know about my past or will not judge me for it
. A sense of humor (willing to be silly, laugh and goof off)
. Age is not a factor. Anywhere between 18 to 40-something would be okay.
. Attractive (Hey, there has to be chemistry!)
. Adventurous
. Beautiful smile
. Kindness
. Able to accept me for who I am, as well as my strange family
There's really no definitive list, however. I'd be content to meet someone who can make me smile and forget about the past for a while.
Crossposted to: theatrical_muse