Come on now, enough is enough.
This is exactly what I told him I was concerned about.
Come on, these silly games have got to stop and stop today! You're not just making his life difficult, believe me. I don't want such negativity to cloud what will be a joyous occasion next month. I have learned to accept what has happened and you should do the same. You need to move on with your life and stop putting emotional pressure on him because that's the last thing he needs right now. I thought you could appreciate that? I can understand how you are feeling as we've all been there and it's not easy but you'll never move on if you refuse to let go. If you care about him then why can't you be a friend to him and appreciate that he has enough on his plate to deal with without added pressure from you. I'm sure he doesn't need to go over the past with you with a fine tooth comb on a daily basis. Yes, your relationship was wonderful to begin with but it came to it's natural end because neither of you were making each other happy anymore. Sadly, it happens and will no doubt happen to you a couple of times in your life before you find a relationship that works and with a person that can accept you for who you are. That's just life.
I'm sorry if this comes across as harsh but I feel that I need to step up because he's too passive at times and you need to realise that your words are causing unnecessary grief....... and not just to him! He has greater things to consider just now and would benefit from your support and encouragement, not added pressure.
If you love someone, you have to be prepared to let them go. Harsh but nonetheless the way of it. So do yourself the favour, you'll feel better for it in the long run.
Come on, these silly games have got to stop and stop today! You're not just making his life difficult, believe me. I don't want such negativity to cloud what will be a joyous occasion next month. I have learned to accept what has happened and you should do the same. You need to move on with your life and stop putting emotional pressure on him because that's the last thing he needs right now. I thought you could appreciate that? I can understand how you are feeling as we've all been there and it's not easy but you'll never move on if you refuse to let go. If you care about him then why can't you be a friend to him and appreciate that he has enough on his plate to deal with without added pressure from you. I'm sure he doesn't need to go over the past with you with a fine tooth comb on a daily basis. Yes, your relationship was wonderful to begin with but it came to it's natural end because neither of you were making each other happy anymore. Sadly, it happens and will no doubt happen to you a couple of times in your life before you find a relationship that works and with a person that can accept you for who you are. That's just life.
I'm sorry if this comes across as harsh but I feel that I need to step up because he's too passive at times and you need to realise that your words are causing unnecessary grief....... and not just to him! He has greater things to consider just now and would benefit from your support and encouragement, not added pressure.
If you love someone, you have to be prepared to let them go. Harsh but nonetheless the way of it. So do yourself the favour, you'll feel better for it in the long run.