I don't know if it's just me but somehow I feel as if everyone's becoming more and more distant from me, both Malaysian and Japanese friends. They don't inform or update me on anything these days
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TBH, if it didn't work the first time, I doubt it'll work the second time. =\
I can assure you it's probably not something you did - we always get so caught up in our lives we tend to forget that there're other people who want to know how we're doing and whether we're fine. I live in the same area and know even less about what's going on (then feel I got shafted when they all go and have a yamcha/movie/etc).
Call me cold, call me unfriendly, call me a bitch. But I intend to get straight to the point.
The world doesn't revolve around you.
Just because we do not give you to-the-minute updates on our lives doesn't mean that we've forgotten about you. Just because we do not tell you what our plans may be doesn't mean we've stopped caring about you. Please try to remember that our lives have become increasingly busy as of late. As for today, it was a pretty much last-minute thing. And if you think our friendship is that frail, I'm happy to tell you that you're mistaken!
I had too many breakups and ppl not communicating anymore with me to trust a relationship wont be broken that easily.
And after coming here and seeing more of the world, I found out the world isn't as amai as you think :/
Doesn't mean I'm self centered, I just wanna know whats going on over there. You'll know how it feels soon :( of not being able to see your closest friends and family whenever you want to.
This might sound like pouring cold water on you, but Ren this is exactly what it is : The world never revolves around anyone. Neither me, you nor anyone else.
You aren't alone nor being treated coldly, but aside from reasons deru stated above. Please do realize that one has their own privacies as well. Just because your best friends outing did not involve you doesn't mean you're forgotten.
I don't know if whatever I'm saying here is relevant nor I don't know if you're going to take my advice here, but 2 cents here, so you are free to take it or leave it.
When you are/were far away it's too easy for friendships to weaken, everyone is preoccupied with what they are surrounded with. It would probably be too harsh to decide how meaningful your friendships are based on that.
I hope you work your troubles out soon... but take things easy, if you put too much pressure on the friends you want to bring closer to you you will push them away instead ^^
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It's no fun if people just go "Oh, okay, so he's back." and act as if nothing happened..
(I guess all of this is just my emo side and empty stomach talking)
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I can assure you it's probably not something you did - we always get so caught up in our lives we tend to forget that there're other people who want to know how we're doing and whether we're fine. I live in the same area and know even less about what's going on (then feel I got shafted when they all go and have a yamcha/movie/etc).
*hughug*
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The world doesn't revolve around you.
Just because we do not give you to-the-minute updates on our lives doesn't mean that we've forgotten about you. Just because we do not tell you what our plans may be doesn't mean we've stopped caring about you. Please try to remember that our lives have become increasingly busy as of late. As for today, it was a pretty much last-minute thing. And if you think our friendship is that frail, I'm happy to tell you that you're mistaken!
友情はアンタが思ったより強いんだよ。
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I had too many breakups and ppl not communicating anymore with me to trust a relationship wont be broken that easily.
And after coming here and seeing more of the world, I found out the world isn't as amai as you think :/
Doesn't mean I'm self centered, I just wanna know whats going on over there. You'll know how it feels soon :( of not being able to see your closest friends and family whenever you want to.
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It happens all the time. That's how you appreciate them more and then claw your way to meet them.
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This might sound like pouring cold water on you, but Ren this is exactly what it is : The world never revolves around anyone. Neither me, you nor anyone else.
You aren't alone nor being treated coldly, but aside from reasons deru stated above. Please do realize that one has their own privacies as well. Just because your best friends outing did not involve you doesn't mean you're forgotten.
I don't know if whatever I'm saying here is relevant nor I don't know if you're going to take my advice here, but 2 cents here, so you are free to take it or leave it.
All the best, Ren.
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Not sure what to say but things should work out fine.
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When you are/were far away it's too easy for friendships to weaken, everyone is preoccupied with what they are surrounded with. It would probably be too harsh to decide how meaningful your friendships are based on that.
I hope you work your troubles out soon... but take things easy, if you put too much pressure on the friends you want to bring closer to you you will push them away instead ^^
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