30 Day Meme Challenge!
It's been awhile since I've posted. It's all been hockey-related, pssh whatever, it's awesome. Can't deny that. But how about we do a little change of pace? :) My sister challenged my other sister and I to do a 30-day meme post. At first I usually avoid these things b/c I never really get around to them, or the topics are just hell-a boring. But looking at these topics, they're actually pretty fun to talk about!
So bring on the challenge!
This will be a 2-in-1 post since I missed yesterday's b/c I was working on a stupid Hsci paper... (which I should be working on now...) >__>
And. Here. We. Go.
*queue epic music playing in the bg*
1. Five Ways to Win your Heart
1.) Understands the Importance of Family -- Top priority. If people knew my family, they would understand. Without a family, what is a person? Where is their sense of identity? Family is another part of yourself. It is something that has molded each one of us to who we are today. The importance of family, and keeping close ties with them is an extremely important aspect. It shows that the person appreciates their family and respects the idea of keeping close bonds. My bond with my family is extremely strong, if a person cannot understand this and that my family must be a part of my life, then how do you expect me to get along with you?
2.) Spiritual Faith -- Another important aspect. I strongly believe in applying spiritual faith into our lives. It is always nice to have someone beside you, who understands the life hard struggles we go through today, and offers spiritual strength. I would want a person who understands the strength of my faith and someone who I'm not afraid to speak openly about.
3.) Introduces new sides of me -- There is really no easy way to find yourself in a lifetime. However, it can be through of another that a discovery of new things about yourself can be created. As much as I would like to have someone who has relatively the same interests as me, I would love to have someone who somehow knows and believes that I have something more to unlock. By introducing me to different fields of thinking, hobbies, or even leisure, is an exciting challenge to look forward to.
4.) Romantic and no Hidden Agendas -- I am such a sucker for anything homemade. A cooked dinner, a drawn out card, a love-letter..anything really! I don't know, it just seems that when something is given to me hand-made, it shows how hard that person worked and how much they appreciate you. That in itself is someone who is special. The Hidden Agenda part is really about Honesty. I appreciate an honest person. Someone who doesn't lurk behind the shadows behind your back and someone who is open. I hate to continue guessing on what the other person is thinking, b/c then it leads me to over-think, which then leads to horrible things on my part. I am open (at least try to be), I too would want that from my partner.
5.) Acceptance -- I am not a perfect person. I may give the appearance that I'm strong and confident, however, deep inside I'm quite weak. I have anxieties. I get jealous easily (though I believe I am getting better). I over-think and panic. I am someone who have doubts about myself. When someone can accept these aspects of myself and still love me for who I am, then you have just sealed the deal on capturing me.
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2. Something you feel strongly about
It's kinda hard to pinpoint on a specific thing that I feel strongly about. C'mon, I have sooo many! But I guess the first thing that pops into my head are "girly-girl" Asian girls.
*shudders*
Being an Asian myself, I defy all normal logic of a "typical Asian girl". I am not short. I do not have those "almond Asian eyes". I do not wear makeup. I do not wear frilly clothes. I do not wear high-heels. I do not giggle like everything around me is the funniest thing in the world.
I am, practically the opposite. I am tall and play sports. I backtalk to people whenever I play soccer or any other sport. I'm loud and what I would believe myself, to be quite a man.
But it's those Asian girly-girls that get me so riled up. Being all cute and short in their cute clothes and girly make-up, they somehow get all of the good guys. And it's just plain unfair. They are even more whine-y and complain-y!! C'mon!! How can you guys take that?? Gawd girls, pull yourself together and stand up for yourself! You're embarrassing the whole female population!!
It's so unfair. By adding a few curls here, fix up some make-up here, the guys are putty in their hands. In order to even to get a guy to notice me, I have to try doubly hard. I refuse to wear make-up (and always will), so I have to resort to getting their attention indirectly. I'm shy at heart. I can't be bold and go up to the guy I like and talk to him like it's nothing. Call me old-fashioned, but I wait until the guy comes up to me. Which is ever so rare. Which is probably why not many guys come to "like/notice" me.
I just don't understand how they do it. All they have to do is flick a piece of their hair-sprayed hair and then all of a sudden all the genuinely good guys are gone. And nothing is left but the douches. Oh wait, even the douches get in a part of that. So I guess that leaves us....with nothing? Awesome.
WHAT HAPPENED TO LIKING STRONG GIRLS WHO HAVE A BACKBONE AND PLAY SPORTS. >_____<
I think I need to channel some anger into this stupid essay of mine...a;skdfhalkhsldjfadsjf!!!!!!
So bring on the challenge!
This will be a 2-in-1 post since I missed yesterday's b/c I was working on a stupid Hsci paper... (which I should be working on now...) >__>
And. Here. We. Go.
*queue epic music playing in the bg*
1. Five Ways to Win your Heart
1.) Understands the Importance of Family -- Top priority. If people knew my family, they would understand. Without a family, what is a person? Where is their sense of identity? Family is another part of yourself. It is something that has molded each one of us to who we are today. The importance of family, and keeping close ties with them is an extremely important aspect. It shows that the person appreciates their family and respects the idea of keeping close bonds. My bond with my family is extremely strong, if a person cannot understand this and that my family must be a part of my life, then how do you expect me to get along with you?
2.) Spiritual Faith -- Another important aspect. I strongly believe in applying spiritual faith into our lives. It is always nice to have someone beside you, who understands the life hard struggles we go through today, and offers spiritual strength. I would want a person who understands the strength of my faith and someone who I'm not afraid to speak openly about.
3.) Introduces new sides of me -- There is really no easy way to find yourself in a lifetime. However, it can be through of another that a discovery of new things about yourself can be created. As much as I would like to have someone who has relatively the same interests as me, I would love to have someone who somehow knows and believes that I have something more to unlock. By introducing me to different fields of thinking, hobbies, or even leisure, is an exciting challenge to look forward to.
4.) Romantic and no Hidden Agendas -- I am such a sucker for anything homemade. A cooked dinner, a drawn out card, a love-letter..anything really! I don't know, it just seems that when something is given to me hand-made, it shows how hard that person worked and how much they appreciate you. That in itself is someone who is special. The Hidden Agenda part is really about Honesty. I appreciate an honest person. Someone who doesn't lurk behind the shadows behind your back and someone who is open. I hate to continue guessing on what the other person is thinking, b/c then it leads me to over-think, which then leads to horrible things on my part. I am open (at least try to be), I too would want that from my partner.
5.) Acceptance -- I am not a perfect person. I may give the appearance that I'm strong and confident, however, deep inside I'm quite weak. I have anxieties. I get jealous easily (though I believe I am getting better). I over-think and panic. I am someone who have doubts about myself. When someone can accept these aspects of myself and still love me for who I am, then you have just sealed the deal on capturing me.
******
2. Something you feel strongly about
It's kinda hard to pinpoint on a specific thing that I feel strongly about. C'mon, I have sooo many! But I guess the first thing that pops into my head are "girly-girl" Asian girls.
*shudders*
Being an Asian myself, I defy all normal logic of a "typical Asian girl". I am not short. I do not have those "almond Asian eyes". I do not wear makeup. I do not wear frilly clothes. I do not wear high-heels. I do not giggle like everything around me is the funniest thing in the world.
I am, practically the opposite. I am tall and play sports. I backtalk to people whenever I play soccer or any other sport. I'm loud and what I would believe myself, to be quite a man.
But it's those Asian girly-girls that get me so riled up. Being all cute and short in their cute clothes and girly make-up, they somehow get all of the good guys. And it's just plain unfair. They are even more whine-y and complain-y!! C'mon!! How can you guys take that?? Gawd girls, pull yourself together and stand up for yourself! You're embarrassing the whole female population!!
It's so unfair. By adding a few curls here, fix up some make-up here, the guys are putty in their hands. In order to even to get a guy to notice me, I have to try doubly hard. I refuse to wear make-up (and always will), so I have to resort to getting their attention indirectly. I'm shy at heart. I can't be bold and go up to the guy I like and talk to him like it's nothing. Call me old-fashioned, but I wait until the guy comes up to me. Which is ever so rare. Which is probably why not many guys come to "like/notice" me.
I just don't understand how they do it. All they have to do is flick a piece of their hair-sprayed hair and then all of a sudden all the genuinely good guys are gone. And nothing is left but the douches. Oh wait, even the douches get in a part of that. So I guess that leaves us....with nothing? Awesome.
WHAT HAPPENED TO LIKING STRONG GIRLS WHO HAVE A BACKBONE AND PLAY SPORTS. >_____<
I think I need to channel some anger into this stupid essay of mine...a;skdfhalkhsldjfadsjf!!!!!!