How are you?
Was talking to orangejava again, about life in general and had some thoughts.
These few weeks or so, there were unhappy incidents involving some of us losing our loved ones. I mentioned to bestie just yesterday, it IS a bit depressing.
With regards to affairs of the heart, no one can know. I know of a certain friend who serial dates but was once almost crippled by a passer-by who never meant to stay in his heart. I am happy that he is now serial dating again. =)
I also know of a person who just ended a relationship and is now so guarded he doesn't let anyone in easily anymore. All I see are walls and fortresses build up before a fragile heart. It hurts, to see the sadness behind the jokes he made about his dead romance.
I read in into_the_wild posts that time does heal. And I cannot disagree, whether it heals or not I am not sure, but I know time passes and a wise advice I had was, we are humans, we will forget. Do you even remember what you had for lunch 2 weeks ago? We are capable of forgetting. And the human spirit is strong.
I write this post today with a thought. That everyone needs someone at some point in time. We may think our friends are fine. But how is a depressed person to speak their mind? And where is the courage of the oft abused if they already allow someone to take theirs away?
My friends, take heart, for sometimes, you never know if your friend is in need. It is never too much to ask "how are you?" once in a while.
We need to know at the end of it all, love is only possible, with life. Do not be mistaken. For love has been so overrated, it has claimed lives of many. Choose life, and then you'll love.
How is everyone? =)
These few weeks or so, there were unhappy incidents involving some of us losing our loved ones. I mentioned to bestie just yesterday, it IS a bit depressing.
With regards to affairs of the heart, no one can know. I know of a certain friend who serial dates but was once almost crippled by a passer-by who never meant to stay in his heart. I am happy that he is now serial dating again. =)
I also know of a person who just ended a relationship and is now so guarded he doesn't let anyone in easily anymore. All I see are walls and fortresses build up before a fragile heart. It hurts, to see the sadness behind the jokes he made about his dead romance.
I read in into_the_wild posts that time does heal. And I cannot disagree, whether it heals or not I am not sure, but I know time passes and a wise advice I had was, we are humans, we will forget. Do you even remember what you had for lunch 2 weeks ago? We are capable of forgetting. And the human spirit is strong.
I write this post today with a thought. That everyone needs someone at some point in time. We may think our friends are fine. But how is a depressed person to speak their mind? And where is the courage of the oft abused if they already allow someone to take theirs away?
My friends, take heart, for sometimes, you never know if your friend is in need. It is never too much to ask "how are you?" once in a while.
We need to know at the end of it all, love is only possible, with life. Do not be mistaken. For love has been so overrated, it has claimed lives of many. Choose life, and then you'll love.
How is everyone? =)