Well yes... I've not known someone to sing Enya during sex before... But to actually answer your question, yes, Fiona and I have been sleeping together. Is that a bad thing...?
I like her in that she is a very good friend to me. As far as a romantic thing... well, it's a bit more casual than that. Which is understood by both of us. Actually, she was the first to say that. She's not looking for a relationship, and it would be foolish of me to try and start something like that so soon after... everything that's happened. We're taking care of each other and bringing happiness to each other's lives, but sooner or later we will stop sleeping together and continue on as before, friends, uh, without the sexy benefits as it were.
Because Fiona...I don't think she'd be a good mum. She's a wonderful friend and sister but she does like to...go off places. And...okay I'm protective of Matthew and if she went off on him too I'd have to hit her and she's bigger than me.
Oh, I see! Right, that's fair enough. Thank you for being protective of my son :) I really appreciate that. I hadn't even thought of it like that, because that's just not what's going on between us, so I just didn't realise that others might think that. Yeah, it's not something you need to worry about. I want Matthew to have someone to call Mum, but I don't know who that person will be yet, and I'm not really thinking about looking at the moment. I don't want to go looking for something I'm not ready for. But, who knows? Maybe it is something that will find me and we will take it from there.
I love you, Hope. It really is wonderful of you to think of us like that :) I actually thought you were being protective of Fiona until now, which would also be fair enough, cos of the whole sister thing ;)
I love you too! I know Fiona is completely capable of taking care of herself. And when she's not, she asks for help. I have no reason to be overprotective of her, especially not to YOU.
She does make me happier. I think we both find a lot of comfort in each other. We don't just sleep together, we talk a lot about things... she's really easy to be open with. It's nice to have that intimacy without expectation, or being afraid that somehow expectations I have will be too much. And even though I've never thought of her as a mother for Matthew, she is really good with him, and we have a good time when we are three, rather than two as well. I think it is a good thing for us to have right now.
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Because Fiona...I don't think she'd be a good mum. She's a wonderful friend and sister but she does like to...go off places. And...okay I'm protective of Matthew and if she went off on him too I'd have to hit her and she's bigger than me.
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I love you, Hope. It really is wonderful of you to think of us like that :) I actually thought you were being protective of Fiona until now, which would also be fair enough, cos of the whole sister thing ;)
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I love you too! I know Fiona is completely capable of taking care of herself. And when she's not, she asks for help. I have no reason to be overprotective of her, especially not to YOU.
So...she makes you happier then?
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She does make me happier. I think we both find a lot of comfort in each other. We don't just sleep together, we talk a lot about things... she's really easy to be open with. It's nice to have that intimacy without expectation, or being afraid that somehow expectations I have will be too much. And even though I've never thought of her as a mother for Matthew, she is really good with him, and we have a good time when we are three, rather than two as well. I think it is a good thing for us to have right now.
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