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[reliablejyou]

I had an argument with Sora. I guess I just… wanted to talk about it with someone? I’d talk to Takeru, but I feel like he has enough going on at the moment. Things with him and Michael seem a little… tense

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[harmonicasatire]

Nah, it's fine. Dealing with anything that isn't a textbook or a cleaning supply is a welcomed relief.

As far as I can tell, Sora doesn't understand boundaries. When you live with someone, there's always a boundary. Invisible lines that you have to respect like it or not. It really wasn't fair of her to disappear without a word, especially for a month. Knowing you, you were probably about ready to start dialing every morgue number you could, right?

She should have atleast dropped a text or something. Heck, I'm going on 22 and I still text dad if I'm running late, because I respect him. I don't want him worrying about me unnecessarily. After living with you Sora should understand by now that you worry. A lot.

And while, yeah, it can be annoying, you're not really as bad as you could be. You just care a lot. You're like a mother hen. Always got to worry. But you probably stop everyone from doing something stupidly damaging by interfering. So I don't really see it as a bad thing. And I haven't seen the coffee table so I have no judgement on it.

I don't think that it's you being too irritating to live with. It doesn't seem like Sora's the type that can live with someone. You guys share the apartment, so even though you may not see each other often it doesn't mean you don't care/worry. If she can't say if she'll be gone for a long time ('cause a mont is a long time), let alone where she can be reached in case of emergencies 'n whatnot, then she's not a dependable person to live with. I'd say she's the one with trust issues. Not to mention a few other issues

And you're welcome. I'm glad you liked it.

[reliablejyou]

Oh, I forgot you had so much going on at the moment. Is the studying going okay? If you want I can drop buy with coffees or something, but not if it’ll distract you, I don’t want to drag you away from work. I know how annoying it can be if you’ve just got focused and somebody interrupts.

I don’t know, we’ve lived together for a while and never really had a problem before (Apart from that time she up and vanished to Russia of course). What I mean is when she’s home we normally get along fine, taking turns to buy groceries and clean and stuff. All the little things that help make sharing a space easier, you know? But when she goes on holiday it feels a bit like she just forgets I’m here. (And yes I was about ready to call out a search party.)

She did tell me where she was going this time, but it would have been nice to know when she decided to practically move in with Hiroki. She said that I shouldn’t need to know every little detail and that it made me dull. What if she’s right though and I do worry too much? I don’t know, I just don’t feel like it can all be explained away by her being unreasonable. Maybe I should apologise, I do feel terrible for forgetting her boyfriend’s name.

*sigh* Sorry and thanks for listening to me complain about this. You give some good advice and just talking to you makes me feel a bit better about it. I’ll make it up to you somehow.