I'm still in shock. I gave up on Glee this past season, wasn't part of the fandom and only ever heard about his and Lea's relationship from entertainment site headlines and yet still feel so devastated about this. There's been a supportive outpouring of grief for him and Lea (latest is that they were engaged? oh god.) and family/friends. But, damn, Mark Salling's simple (now deleted) tweet hit me the hardest. That one word says it all.