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Pro tip: if you want to give your ex life advice on how to be a better girlfriend/friend, maybe wait longer than a month after you broke up with her and then told her you wanted to date one of her best friends and then asked her for swing dance lessons, which was one of the big reasons you broke up in the first place, because you refused to even try to learn to dance.
I don't know, maybe wait until after she processes the fact that all the reasons you have for the break up were legitimate but also apparently things you are willing to work on after the relationship but not during.
Or maybe just don't corner your recent ex-girlfriend in a car and start listing things that you did not feel quite worked out while she's still trying to get past the feeling of being undesirable and unattractive because that's what she'd been feeling for the last few months in the relationship.
Lindy Focus and the resultant blatant flirting during and after has been a really welcome mental health saver.
I don't know, maybe wait until after she processes the fact that all the reasons you have for the break up were legitimate but also apparently things you are willing to work on after the relationship but not during.
Or maybe just don't corner your recent ex-girlfriend in a car and start listing things that you did not feel quite worked out while she's still trying to get past the feeling of being undesirable and unattractive because that's what she'd been feeling for the last few months in the relationship.
Lindy Focus and the resultant blatant flirting during and after has been a really welcome mental health saver.