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"Every relationship decision we make has two elements in common: It affects two people, and it is based on the viewpoint of one. So all you can do is make the best decision for yourself, given what you know - and when you don't know enough, you can decide not to decide , at least not until the evidence starts making sense."
- Carolyn Hax
I've decided that the whole friends with benefits nonsense definitely has its perks, but in the long run it gets messy, mostly because I'm not a machine and inevitably develop feelings, thus turning me into Crazy Relationship Kate (why isn't he calling/texting/looking at me/talking to me every 5 seconds). And I freak out over the fact that he's not showing affection....only to remember that the original agreement was strictly secretive business in the first place and it's actually my own emotions that are ruining it. Blast.
- Carolyn Hax
I've decided that the whole friends with benefits nonsense definitely has its perks, but in the long run it gets messy, mostly because I'm not a machine and inevitably develop feelings, thus turning me into Crazy Relationship Kate (why isn't he calling/texting/looking at me/talking to me every 5 seconds). And I freak out over the fact that he's not showing affection....only to remember that the original agreement was strictly secretive business in the first place and it's actually my own emotions that are ruining it. Blast.