My heart hurts tonight

[redbells]

There is some major friend drama going down right now, and it looks like I'm going to be on the losing end of it yet again. Intellectually, I know that these people are being ridiculous, and that I have nothing to apologize for, but that isn't stopping me from wanting to just break down and cry

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[pearlseed]

I haven't a clue, but I send my hearthugs to you. I've recently been introduced to how utterly stupid people can be on Facebook, imagining that what they say to their screen doesn't go out into the world in sometimes not a good way. Surely people can be educated.

As to what to write...have you seen any Lost Girl? Got this plain looking man with a scruffy beard (can change to werewolf, but plain I'm telling --sorta in the Hans Solo ? maybe). He's got this strange little energy working with the lady lead, story being they are Fae (fey) a gathering of magicals and monsters. She's a succubus, now there's a gig. She was sitting in a bar with him tonight and her girlfriend walks up (yeah? kinda Torchwood). She tells him to scooch over and he gets such a look saying "I don't scooch". Or the True Blood werewolf...good golly whata tamale! He's a BIG old child from Pittsburgh and he looks like he eats steel! Head high I didn't reach his er. mid-chest. Gentle man with a delightful laugh.

My grandmother said to write the name of the unhappy (mean, rude whatever) person three times and put the paper in a litlle bit of honey. Sweetens them supposedly. Love you , something you can do about it, why worry, nothing you can do about it, why worry...Helps me sometimes.

[redbells]

Thank you Pearl. Facebook was indeed involved - rather than actually speak to me face to face, one of my friends decided it would be better to air his grievances via Facebook message. It wasn't so much what he said as it was the fact that he didn't value our friendship enough to try to work things out in person. It just hurt. But I'm hanging out with other people and I'm trying not to let it get me down. The hearthugs are very much appreciated :)

I have not seen Lost Girl, but I definitely want to check it out now! And goodness yes, that True Blood werewolf. I will admit to googling him just to drool over his abs. Ahem. :P

Thank you so much for the note - it definitely made the night better. Oh, and be on the look out for some piratey things in sometime in the near future :)

Love you!

[pearlseed]

Can you say massive pissant? (deep south, there are fireants, not nice in anyway, pissants, small irriations that mess things up, and sugar ants yeah, get into anything everything thing all things sweet). I got absolutely no use for something, someone who doesn't have the (appropriate name in your area male body parts) to stand up face to face and say goodnight....I got titanium huevos, acquired on line and I'm damned proud of them...love the clink of them when I decide to drag 'em out and rattle 'em around. No respect for those who hide behind icons...that's not life. There's an oilfield saying "suck my dody for an ice cream sod-y" I'm pretty sure it's not a nice saying...I like you quite nicely, you've a good mind and yeah, not perfect, but pretty damn fine you are.