A Bunch of Hypotheticals… Meme stolen from mieystrapurore
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someone’s eyes and telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
The former, I suppose. The latter is probably easier because they're the one with all the things to say. the least I could to is give them some respect.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry.
Last week when I arranged a big reunion kind of lunch and someone made 1/2 of us really late and the other 1/2 was kinda mad... so I was mad at that one person and... well its a complicated story.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
My mother, I guess. I have service up there?
4. You are at the doctor's office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. (A) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? (B) What do you do with your remaining days? (C) Would you be afraid?
A) Yes, I'll tell those who matter to me and who i matter to
B) everything i've always wanted to do. travel. make some lasting change to the environment (hell, they'll let me do anything if i tell them i'm dying).
C) yes, but I'd get over it. one month is a while.
5. You can have one of the following two things: trust or love. Which do you choose?
trust. although i do agree w/ fei that they go hand-in-hand
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you save the dog?
Although i love puppies, i'm gonna have to let this one go. my theory is that this one dog's significance is small compared to the grand scheme. also, depends on the proximity and depth of the canal. if i can make it to work on time i'll sure as hell save the dog.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her?
not at first, at least. unless theres a way they could find out. then i'd come clean. but i cant see myself being unfaithful for a long amount of time... if i was serious about this other person then obviously i dont love my spouse like i used to and i'd honestly just break it off... mmm i makes sense in my head.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
i try my best to keep the friendship going.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. Do you do it?
I lead a pretty blessed life and no one too close to me has died since i've been alive. *knock on wood*
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Hell yes.
11. Does love = sex?
mmm no, but sex should = love
12. Your boss tells your co-worker that he/she has to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your co-worker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company?
if i had a guaranteed back up then yes.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? What did you have to tell them?
I'm not sure how honest these capitalized letters mean. I am often honest and have feelings. But there haven't been any heart-wrenching confessions of love or anything, lol.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back?
Harder to tell them. It takes a lot of courage. I'm not talking about just "i heart you!" I'm talking about for reals.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
my family. if you're talking about some strange family-switching program. they're my support system... so what else can i do without it?
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
probably my suite mate because shes mushy and loves hearing endearing things like that, lol
17. What is love?
MMMmmmm its that warm fuzzy feeling you get when you care about someone and you want what's best for them.
18. Imagine. It is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. Who do you wish was there with you?
Well, first response would be my brother. but knowing my brother, he might try to scare me...
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying?
Yes. i mean, i'd be like a weird kiss with a stranger, but yes if i could save his/her life.
21. You are holding onto your grandmothers hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death?
Definitely the baby. that is a horrible way for an old person to die. and its my granmama. she cooks for me. i mean, i've known that lady for 13 years. i dont even know this baby.
22. Are you old fashioned?
In some respects. You know, when thinking of manners and stuff yes. but not with ideas in regards to the environment... and women empowerment, lol.
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did not expect anything back?
all the time, lol. i believe in chivalry too.
24. Which would you choose, love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
love, most def. you wouldnt even know what you were missing if you picked the latter.
The former, I suppose. The latter is probably easier because they're the one with all the things to say. the least I could to is give them some respect.
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry.
Last week when I arranged a big reunion kind of lunch and someone made 1/2 of us really late and the other 1/2 was kinda mad... so I was mad at that one person and... well its a complicated story.
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who would you call?
My mother, I guess. I have service up there?
4. You are at the doctor's office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. (A) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? (B) What do you do with your remaining days? (C) Would you be afraid?
A) Yes, I'll tell those who matter to me and who i matter to
B) everything i've always wanted to do. travel. make some lasting change to the environment (hell, they'll let me do anything if i tell them i'm dying).
C) yes, but I'd get over it. one month is a while.
5. You can have one of the following two things: trust or love. Which do you choose?
trust. although i do agree w/ fei that they go hand-in-hand
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you save the dog?
Although i love puppies, i'm gonna have to let this one go. my theory is that this one dog's significance is small compared to the grand scheme. also, depends on the proximity and depth of the canal. if i can make it to work on time i'll sure as hell save the dog.
7. You are unfaithful to your spouse/significant other. Do you tell him/her?
not at first, at least. unless theres a way they could find out. then i'd come clean. but i cant see myself being unfaithful for a long amount of time... if i was serious about this other person then obviously i dont love my spouse like i used to and i'd honestly just break it off... mmm i makes sense in my head.
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more then just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you do/say?
i try my best to keep the friendship going.
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give one year of your life. Do you do it?
I lead a pretty blessed life and no one too close to me has died since i've been alive. *knock on wood*
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
Hell yes.
11. Does love = sex?
mmm no, but sex should = love
12. Your boss tells your co-worker that he/she has to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your co-worker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company?
if i had a guaranteed back up then yes.
13. When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? What did you have to tell them?
I'm not sure how honest these capitalized letters mean. I am often honest and have feelings. But there haven't been any heart-wrenching confessions of love or anything, lol.
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a friend, you love them or that you do not love them back?
Harder to tell them. It takes a lot of courage. I'm not talking about just "i heart you!" I'm talking about for reals.
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
my family. if you're talking about some strange family-switching program. they're my support system... so what else can i do without it?
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?
probably my suite mate because shes mushy and loves hearing endearing things like that, lol
17. What is love?
MMMmmmm its that warm fuzzy feeling you get when you care about someone and you want what's best for them.
18. Imagine. It is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. Who do you wish was there with you?
Well, first response would be my brother. but knowing my brother, he might try to scare me...
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying?
Yes. i mean, i'd be like a weird kiss with a stranger, but yes if i could save his/her life.
21. You are holding onto your grandmothers hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death?
Definitely the baby. that is a horrible way for an old person to die. and its my granmama. she cooks for me. i mean, i've known that lady for 13 years. i dont even know this baby.
22. Are you old fashioned?
In some respects. You know, when thinking of manners and stuff yes. but not with ideas in regards to the environment... and women empowerment, lol.
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did not expect anything back?
all the time, lol. i believe in chivalry too.
24. Which would you choose, love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
love, most def. you wouldnt even know what you were missing if you picked the latter.