http://teagueful.livejournal.com/26058.html?thread=6958538#t6958538 I watched this happen in my own family when I was a teenager and it went along with a mental breakdown at the loss of one of the sufferer's children. It's an incredibly black and baaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwsworthy thing and I honestly think that Anon and the "that's so sad I WANT IT" Anons have never known anyone older at a close distance.
tl;dr: I judge you for your kinks, and I yet again judge Anon guilty of FAIL.
(Don't even start on me, I hate my own kinks too.)