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interesting...
in this comment here:
http://www.livejournal.com/talkread.bml?journal=saluki&itemid=7474&thread=10290#t10290 i learned a new catch phrase...
the btn (better than nothing) relationship
a quick check on google found several references to this
i guess there's so many people in a btn relationship that there's actually a name for it...
this is very scary...
a couple of the links i looked at:
http://www.primechoice.com/philosophy/shelp/sdbtn.htm and
http://www.broken-hearts.com/discussion/_disc1new/000001a9.htm what a frightening concept...