That was...unexpected.
Well, I guess I'll start from the beginning!
In high school I knew this kid named Brandon. I always thought he was kinda cute, and he always had interesting stories. I never really thought much of it, we never really talked that much so I rather forgot about it. This summer I saw him at the Malvern Fair and it was fun talking to him again after such a long time and shortly after that we friended each other on Myspace and then exchanged numbers so we could text.
We've been texting for about a month or so now, and on his part he's been flirting...I guess you could call it that (more like asking me what I'm wearing and other such tidbits so he can have something to think about when he gets off I guess) and then pretty much out of the blue he asked me out last night.
I have absolutely NO idea what I should do. I'm torn in two directions. I don't know what I should do. I mean, I like him and all, but I don't know if it's more then a friend thing...plus he's not really...how do I put it...stable? That sounds harsh. Well he's not like me in the regards of breaking the rules. I know he's done drugs and drinks and stuff like that and I'm quite wary of all that. I don't want to be forced into anything like that if we do date. So I have some red flags up there.
I do like the idea of being someones girlfriend though...and that's another thing. I'm afraid I might just do it to finally say HEY! I'm 19 and I have a boyfriend so I'm not a total loser! I don't want that to be the reason that I date him.
Oh jesus...I have no idea what to do. Plus he's there, I'm here...I don't have a car, I don't know if he has a car. It's just...another thing I have to think about. :/ Any advice?
In high school I knew this kid named Brandon. I always thought he was kinda cute, and he always had interesting stories. I never really thought much of it, we never really talked that much so I rather forgot about it. This summer I saw him at the Malvern Fair and it was fun talking to him again after such a long time and shortly after that we friended each other on Myspace and then exchanged numbers so we could text.
We've been texting for about a month or so now, and on his part he's been flirting...I guess you could call it that (more like asking me what I'm wearing and other such tidbits so he can have something to think about when he gets off I guess) and then pretty much out of the blue he asked me out last night.
I have absolutely NO idea what I should do. I'm torn in two directions. I don't know what I should do. I mean, I like him and all, but I don't know if it's more then a friend thing...plus he's not really...how do I put it...stable? That sounds harsh. Well he's not like me in the regards of breaking the rules. I know he's done drugs and drinks and stuff like that and I'm quite wary of all that. I don't want to be forced into anything like that if we do date. So I have some red flags up there.
I do like the idea of being someones girlfriend though...and that's another thing. I'm afraid I might just do it to finally say HEY! I'm 19 and I have a boyfriend so I'm not a total loser! I don't want that to be the reason that I date him.
Oh jesus...I have no idea what to do. Plus he's there, I'm here...I don't have a car, I don't know if he has a car. It's just...another thing I have to think about. :/ Any advice?