Eye doctor appt.
Well today I officially became my mother I think. The doctor gave me reading glasses along with my regular contacts that I wear every day. He wanted me in bifocals and I said no way.. just.. no way... not yet anyhow. Damnit.
So I picked out a funky little pair of black rimmed half glasses with green squiggles on them. Might as well add a little bling to this normal part of aging that I'm not in the least excited about. Hubby asked why I picked those, and I told him because I LIKED THEM :) he said ok.. lol..
Another twist to the ex story that I last blogged about. His GF called me today.. we talked, she seems ok, strange but ok. Turns out this MAN that was with her, who lives with her still is her ex husband. She married him after her husband of 12 yrs got killed in an accident back last July on the rebound she says.. After marrying him, she says that she woke up one morning and wondered why they did that, so she had it annulled. She says they never consumated the relationship.. ummm I find that hard to believe.. VERY HARD but whatever floats her boat. So now the ex just lives with her and MY ex is her boyfriend and they all have an understanding. Umm weird if you ask ME!!
The boys that slept in the room with Chels was this ex husband of hers, her 11 yr old son and her son's 12 yr old friend that was spending the night. It won't happen again because she wont be going back to spend the night, period.
She also asked me if I thought that my ex wanted to have kids of his own, since Chels was adopted. Of course, I know he does.. I knew that almost immediately after we got married that it bothered him that I couldnt have kids, when I found an email that he had written to someone stating that it bothered him.. dispite the fact that I was always very open, honest and told him everything, and he knew.. said it didnt bother him. It bothered me a great deal when I ran across that email that he left opened on my computer one day. Maybe she can give him the child that I never could since she's only 30 and has kids already. I was surprised at my feelings of failure all over again today when she was asking me about having children.. I guess some things never really leave you.