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A close friend of mine in NYC was raped last night. She was drunk and partying with the wrong crowd and claims to have blacked out. The NYPD made her wear a wire and confront the guy today, who lives in her dorm, but he claims that she agreed to it. A bit of a back story on this girl: of all the drugs I've done, I've done 90% of them with her including acid and K. To put it lightly, she's out of control and I'm not proud of our relationship. She also slept with my boyfriend of 3 years last summer and caused a rather nasty breakup scene at a train station, which I am also not proud of.
I don't write people off that easy, which is the main problem. I mean, I probably should have stopped speaking to this girl years ago but we were "rockstars" and did too much blow to care that our friendship was so destructive. After the cheating incident I came back to school this semester and just thought I'd leave the two of them back in my hometown, maybe see them on holidays and just focus on my college life and career. However, this rape incident makes me think that I can't let sleeping dogs lie. SO if anyone has any advice on staging an intervention/cutting dead weight out of your life I'd love to hear it. I'll probably delete this post, I'm not sure I'd want to read it if it came up on my friends page. I kind of just wanted to type all this out & try to figure out how I really feel about having this person in my life. Friends don't come so easy for me. Drugs? Now those come easy.
I don't write people off that easy, which is the main problem. I mean, I probably should have stopped speaking to this girl years ago but we were "rockstars" and did too much blow to care that our friendship was so destructive. After the cheating incident I came back to school this semester and just thought I'd leave the two of them back in my hometown, maybe see them on holidays and just focus on my college life and career. However, this rape incident makes me think that I can't let sleeping dogs lie. SO if anyone has any advice on staging an intervention/cutting dead weight out of your life I'd love to hear it. I'll probably delete this post, I'm not sure I'd want to read it if it came up on my friends page. I kind of just wanted to type all this out & try to figure out how I really feel about having this person in my life. Friends don't come so easy for me. Drugs? Now those come easy.