YE Ghads! Talk about disrespectful and insensitive.
WEll... person who lives in my house told me last night she's gone at the end of june... Leaves me completely scrambled... I can either eat and pay rent, or I can pay bills and pay rent... no bus fare, no food or litter for cats. I am further angered by her lack of respect for me in only giving me two weeks notice. like I can find someone to come rent the room and contribute to 50% of teh house in less than that. right. hell I can't even move out until the end of july... and get this... it's *ALL MY FAULT*. yep you heard right. I am completely 100% responsibile for her deciding to leave.. SImply by being coureous and letting her know that there was a possibility I'd be moving out, but that I had no idea when or if - that Iw ould let herknow when I had more information. The fact that she's so lazy she would only clean her room every few months (yes that includes food garbage left lying in her room) , or that she would take the dishes upstairst o ehr room adn leave them there with food on them, hell leaving dirty pots on the counter without washing them after use.. Never took her own garbage to the garbage bin - including dead cat litter - just left them in the kitchen by the back door. Never cleaned up after her cat horked up hairballs or catfood on the carpets - made excuses for her cats destructive scratching of teh carpet on the stairs - there's now three holes in the carpet on the stairs where there was only one when I moved in. I got sick and tired of cleaning the rest of teh house up after her including the bathroom which, until two days ago was last cleaned in january - when i cleaned it last. admittedly I'm mainly pissed because I needed her there to help with the bills.. That's the only reason I'll be sorry to see the back of her. It is gonna be tough, but I've got a few thins in the works already - phone calls to make, information to gather. I'm just desperate enough to be optimistic.
edited june 16 to add : On top of all that.. My wallet has mysteriously disappeared... in the confusion, it's likely that someone who was helping her pack adn move packed it and it's on its' way to her new house in a few weeks, in the meantime thism eans I have no money.. no bus pass, allmy id was in it.... and I'm getting the runaround from them. Considering that these people packed a pair of shoes she'd set aside not to be packed... I wouldn't be surprised if it wound up in a box.. however.. the likelyhood I'll get it back before I'm 50 is slim to none... This annoys me to no end considering that I could ahve holed myself up in my room with my cats and let all them old folks plus her and two friends do *all* the work. nope.. I buckled down and moved a lot of the heavy boxes from the basement.... helped move some furniture.... I sincerely hope that I find it in my room.. (though after tearing it apart yesterday looking for my wallet and not finding it then.. I'm unenthusiastic) considering that it's the only room I ahve left to clean up
save for the room seh lived in which she is now arefusing to clean.. needs some SERIOUS steam cleaning and Odour removal... can I go after her for the cleaning bill?