not for me... for you...

[re_tard]

how do you 'make' someone stop something?
you cant force people to do things...
if you tell them to stop because you care then
theres a good chance that could become a habit.
if you tell them to stop because they should care,
then it just aggravates the situation.
ultimatums are out of the question...
maybe theres nothing that can be done
except just being there?..
dillemma's i tell you.

you cannot force happiness nor can you force a change in someone ...
even if you care so much more about them than anything else in your life.
i guess in the end its all up to the person.
is giving them a reason to change bad?..

i dont know im starting to hurt myself thinking about such a paradox..

in conclusion, i guess all one can do is buy time...
await for that singular person to realise theres more...
alot more on offer than what they are currently indulging in...

i dunno... meh... mental constipation...
i care too much.

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apparently, i sound like maynard. i dont believe that...

bye.

p.p.s. " ... " -luc