She's not good enough for you,
And you're not good enough for them.
She's not good enough for him,
And he's too good for himself, even.
He's not good enough for her,
Yet... she's not good enough for herself.
Here they are.
Here's the line.
Here's you.
They
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You
But who exactly are "they"?
And who are "they" to dictate who you date and who she hangs out with and who he likes and who they've slept with?
Sluts aren't friends.
Or do these "sluts" (aka, people unworthy of your time, trust, loyalty or friendship) need you more then they're letting on?
I mean really, if we base our relationships with eachother on STI's that we've aquired...
Who's going to go out with you for coffee when you can't help but itch yourself?
Is forming your opinion (for example) about someone based simply on their sex life (which is actually none of your business DUNDUNDUN!) the right thing?
I would have to think not.
Just like basing your opinion of someone on the way they dress...
They way they speak...
The things they're passionate about...
The things that make them happy...
The people they hang out with...
The people they date...
The way they look...
The disorders they have...
The skills they lack...
Their religion...
Their race...
Their sexuality...
My good friend Matt came out to his guy friends four days ago.
They proceeded to punch him in the face,
Then yell out that he is a sick fag, several times.
She was falling for her best friend.
She knew it.
She worked up her courage, and told him.
He told her, that he could never imagine having sex with her.
Her response, "so?"
She wasn't exactly planning on having sex before marriage.
His response, "so that's important to me"
He, on the other hand, was.
He thought he liked her.
He honestly did.
They held hands and kissed goodnight.
They talked on the phone for hours.
One of his good friends, a girl, told him...
"You could do so much better."
Wait a minute, he thought.
"Can I?"
He pushed her away.
He avoided her.
He broke her heart.
He knew it wasn't right.
But something about the judgemental tone in his friend's voice...
He still regrets it all.
What's up with sex?
What's up with judging our friends?
What's up with judging our friends when it comes to sex?
The line of "we and you" or "us and them" should be drawn.
But differently, perhaps.
LoveFriendshipHappinessHugsLaughsKindredSpiritsHeldHandsSexJoyExperiencesLife
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Judgement
Lets get over ourselves.
Lets get on the good side of the line.
That also goes for the way we dress.
They way we speak.
The things we're passionate about.
The things that make us happy.
The people we hang out with.
The people we date.
The way we look.
The disorders we have.
The skills we lack.
Our religion.
And our race.
Make peace.
Not war.
Especially with your friends.
Sheez.