Girl Talk
Girls sure to talk a lot, no wonder guys get so annoyed. I enjoy my time with my girl friends but I can’t constantly listen to girl talk, I just have to tune them out sometimes. I wonder if that’s how a guy feels. And if so how often? Does each sex have a certain breaking point? For guys, I’m guessing, that if they are interested in the girl they have a higher tolerance level for things like girl talk and horrible fake laughter. On the other hand, if males aren’t interested then it seems that the offending female is almost instantly written off and is never again ‘looked up’, that is unless she by some twist of fate becomes hot. Girls on the other hand put up with a lot from guys. To seem interesting we smile and laugh at anything to make a good impression, sad really. Surprising opposite, females seem to have far less patience for their own sex. It goes back to feeling threatened and labeling others. Even friends do it to each other, case it point, myself. I can’t stand when my girl friends drone on and on about their relationship problems. Maybe, I’m bitter? I have come to conclude I am ‘relationship challenged’ and I have no interest in changing that status. I see no use in having a boyfriend other than to create more drama in my already complicated life, as well as having to vent to my girl friends about my issues with him, turning me into a hypocrite. I am many things; a hypocrite is not one of them. Ok, I am slightly insensitive and I do tune out mindless chatter from my friends, correction, girl friends. When my guy friends tell me something I tend to think it’s more important because, well their boys. I have had many long conversations with my boy friend’s and after I always feel appreciative rather than wanting to pop three Advil and crawl into bed. Does that feeling stem from the people? Or is it actually the sex of the person that is so defining? I don’t want to think so…