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so my brother is getting married.
originally their wedding date was set as my due date.
luckily they hadn't sent out invites or anything like that so they could change it since i obviously can't change my due date.
well my brother informed me last night what they changed it to.
not only is it too close to my due date that i can no longer be a brides maid but it's too close to my due date that i could be in labor by then.
i don't know what to do. i don't want to talk to my brother and tell him that because they just sent out their invites.
i just don't want him to feel like i'm trying to ruin his day.
i just want him to realize the situation he's putting myself and my family in.
if i'm in the hospital do my parents go to his wedding or go to the hospital?
it's upsetting to me enough that i can't be in the wedding and now i might not even be able to be at the wedding. and if that forces my parents and my other siblings to miss my first childs birth it's going to make matters even worse.
originally their wedding date was set as my due date.
luckily they hadn't sent out invites or anything like that so they could change it since i obviously can't change my due date.
well my brother informed me last night what they changed it to.
not only is it too close to my due date that i can no longer be a brides maid but it's too close to my due date that i could be in labor by then.
i don't know what to do. i don't want to talk to my brother and tell him that because they just sent out their invites.
i just don't want him to feel like i'm trying to ruin his day.
i just want him to realize the situation he's putting myself and my family in.
if i'm in the hospital do my parents go to his wedding or go to the hospital?
it's upsetting to me enough that i can't be in the wedding and now i might not even be able to be at the wedding. and if that forces my parents and my other siblings to miss my first childs birth it's going to make matters even worse.