Advice !!! PLEASE
So, I have put myself in this position where I have these two completely wonderful, and completely different guys that love me. Both want to be seriously committed for a long long time. I know that I have been a bit deceptive with one of them, and he knows nothing about the other. I know, bad monkey. But I honestly didn't see myself getting this
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Seriously...and for him to say those things is just pure fucking manipulation. He's trying to guilt you into staying with him! This is fucking wrong. He won't kill himself. He won't die if you're gone. He will be unhappy for a while and then he'll find someone else. And on the off hand VERY rare circumstance that he DID kill himself? Well, again, not your responsibility if he's that mentally unstable to begin with.
Jo, you have to live for the NOW. You can't spend your life being unhappy and miserable with someone just because they're trying to guilt you into staying. Is that any way to live?! And if he loved you..truly LOVED YOU...he wouldn't say such fucked up things. He's deliberately playing on the pain you've already suffered from the loss of your brother.
He's got some severe insecurity issues, is all I can say. And any man who accepts you for you, without trying to change you? KEEPER!! And you have the added plus of being honest with him. Being dishonest is no way to have a relationship. Trust me. I know.
GO be happy. Be happy with whichever guy makes you feel alive and good about yourself. Life's too short to spend miserable and unhappy. Life's too short to be used as a pawn, hon.
Now if I could just use my own fucking advice...
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