that update I promised
So here ya go folks, the rare time when I update my journal.
So not too much exciting has happened in the last few months. The biggest thing was beginning to date one of the most wonderful girls I know. Another was seeing my brother, and looking at my fathers face when we surprised him ON HIS BIRTHDAY with my brother home, 3 weeks before my father expected him...the first time I have seen my father cry since my mother passed away...
The drama that I have experienced lately (not really mine, but lately I seem to be getting in the middle of everyone elses) has been a tad bit High Schoolish. I am not trying to be mean for anyone who is reading this and knows that I am in their drama, but when I left High School, I left all that crap behind...I hated that drama in High school, and I hate it even more now, so getting away from it was a welcome relief...but i forget sometimes, because I have had none of my own (thank God) for such a long time, that other people still do. So lately I have been listening to other people, some much older then I am, talking about all the drama they are involved in. It causes me to have headaches (really, it does), because I try to fathom the idea of the drama that the person is having, and really can't see the problem that they are having, and continue to come to the same conclusion I came to when I was in 10th grade...Drama is only drama if you make it so. So folks, check it out...if you find yourself in some drama, and you don't know what to do, tell whoever is causing the drama to grow up; and then let the drama go yourself...don't bring it up, don't talk about it, because it is common knowledge that gossip about drama creates more drama...drama perpetuates (my new favorite word) more drama. Let a sleeping dog lie...or if you are impatient like I am, just shoot the dog and bury it, and let it go. Your life, and others lives, will become a lot more easier after that...and then you learn how to avoid drama, and take care of problems before they become problems, and turn into drama. A drama-less life is a RELAXING life...nothing stupid to stress over.
But seriously folks, if you have some drama, and you HAVE to get it off your chest, please feel free to find me and we can talk...its what I am getting trained to do, and maybe I will be able to help you put that drama away for good, and not worry about it anymore.
We are all adults now...right?
So not too much exciting has happened in the last few months. The biggest thing was beginning to date one of the most wonderful girls I know. Another was seeing my brother, and looking at my fathers face when we surprised him ON HIS BIRTHDAY with my brother home, 3 weeks before my father expected him...the first time I have seen my father cry since my mother passed away...
The drama that I have experienced lately (not really mine, but lately I seem to be getting in the middle of everyone elses) has been a tad bit High Schoolish. I am not trying to be mean for anyone who is reading this and knows that I am in their drama, but when I left High School, I left all that crap behind...I hated that drama in High school, and I hate it even more now, so getting away from it was a welcome relief...but i forget sometimes, because I have had none of my own (thank God) for such a long time, that other people still do. So lately I have been listening to other people, some much older then I am, talking about all the drama they are involved in. It causes me to have headaches (really, it does), because I try to fathom the idea of the drama that the person is having, and really can't see the problem that they are having, and continue to come to the same conclusion I came to when I was in 10th grade...Drama is only drama if you make it so. So folks, check it out...if you find yourself in some drama, and you don't know what to do, tell whoever is causing the drama to grow up; and then let the drama go yourself...don't bring it up, don't talk about it, because it is common knowledge that gossip about drama creates more drama...drama perpetuates (my new favorite word) more drama. Let a sleeping dog lie...or if you are impatient like I am, just shoot the dog and bury it, and let it go. Your life, and others lives, will become a lot more easier after that...and then you learn how to avoid drama, and take care of problems before they become problems, and turn into drama. A drama-less life is a RELAXING life...nothing stupid to stress over.
But seriously folks, if you have some drama, and you HAVE to get it off your chest, please feel free to find me and we can talk...its what I am getting trained to do, and maybe I will be able to help you put that drama away for good, and not worry about it anymore.
We are all adults now...right?