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Apr 02, 2008 22:55

 They sent Thelma to the hospital Monday night. Whether they can convince her to eat is another story. Her caregivers can give consent for a tubal feeding until she becomes strong enough again.

The medical profession is opposed to letting patients die unless they're DNR.

We force people to live longer than they want.

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tyroticon April 3 2008, 16:12:47 UTC
The sad, wonderful thing about Thelmas is that there's probably one not far from where you live.

And I'd be more okay with the idea of dying with dignity if I wasn't aware of how readily people would pressure people into ending their lives so as to not be a "burden" or "inconvenience". Thelma's problem isn't being denied the right to die with dignity. Her problem is that she's had dignity stolen from her life -- from someone that was supposed to have been helping her, no less -- and feels unable to reclaim it.

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rato_do_perigo April 3 2008, 17:54:59 UTC
Hello Bob :)

I wonder if there would be more people pressuring others to end their lives or more people willing to end their lives.

I find many residents are just plain tired of living and don't want to be a burden.

We don't let them have the dignity of chosing.

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tyroticon April 3 2008, 19:51:40 UTC
I wonder if there would be more people pressuring others to end their lives or more people willing to end their lives.Early 20th Century advocacy of eugenics answers that one pretty well. Take people willing to dump relatives in need of extended care in a facility and forget them the option to shorten that stay. Give them a legal option that is more convenient and cheaper to them. You'd be seeing visitors a lot more frequently than you do now, but for much shorter periods ( ... )

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rato_do_perigo April 3 2008, 17:57:47 UTC
You could find a local seniors home and offer to volunteer. Even if it's once a month they'll love you for it.

That's all most of the people would like. Someone to chat with and you'd make their day.

Even if they don't remember you from the last visit :-)

I always ask Katherine how she met her husband. I never tire of the story and she never tires of telling it.

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