Apr 11, 2007 14:29
So for a few months, I was really close to this girl I know. We did a lot of crazy things together, and I told her everything and we were really good friends. Then she moved, and once she was gone, I suddenly realized that my life was better. I no longer had to argue my way to points, my boyfriend trusted me more, and there was no drama. I started thinking back and I realized she caused so much drama in my life. She cheated on her husband, telling him she was out with me or at my house, but in reality she was at her BOYFRIENDS house. She would cause drama, any secret I told her would then be told to 10 other people, and she had no social skills. Plus when Red and I were talking again, she went over to his house and slept with him!! (Rule # 1 of a true friend: YOU DON'T SLEEP WITH ANY GUY YOUR "BEST FRIEND" IS INTERESTED IN!!).
She also hurt my boyfriends roommate, by telling him she was going to leave her husband for him, and then telling me "It's all for fun! He can't support me and my expensive taste!!" (note: her "expensive taste" was shopping for clothes at Wal-Mart). She was rude, disrespectful and had to class. Once she moved my life got 100% better! No longer was there drama, I had secrets again, and my boyfriend trusted me! I realized it was all her!! She moved 600 miles away and at first it sucked, but then I realized what a relief it was! No longer was I caught up in her drama and her trying to play the victim. She would cry on my shoulder that her husband didn't trust her, and then go fuck her my boyfriends roommate!!
I decided not to answer her phone calls anymore, and it felt good. Then I took her off my top 12 on myspace (childish, I know) and I started to delete her comments and I just deleted her from my friends list. She messaged me wanting to know what she did and why I'm taking the "pussy way out" by just not talking to her. I realized I can't waste my time trying to explain how horrible of a person she was. Sure, I'm being a little bitch and just not talking to her, but she's stupid enough that she wouldn't just leave me alone. Frankly, no one misses her and everyone is glad she's gone. She caused so much drama for a lot of people that I'm glad she's gone. When we move, I'm not going to tell her my address because I'll be happy as a clam if I never see her stupid ass again!!!