People need to grow up. GRRRRRRRRR!
GRRRRRRRR!!!! Before I even get started on this journal, I must begin by saying that people need to grow up! I just can't believe the immaturity of some people, and the consequences of their actions. I'm so pissed right now, I'm shaking. And with all of the studying I'm going to be doing this weekend, I don't need one ounce of drama. Here's the story...
Groundwork---Last semester, I took Comparative Anatomy. It was during this time that Nick and I became great friends and also good study partners. Also in the mix were Kyra and Josiah, two premed students as well, whose ambition matches or surpasses Nick's and my own. Consequently, Kyra and Josiah became our study partners. This semester we are all taking Physiology together (it complements Comparative Anatomy).
This semester, as some of you know, I'm doing a kick ass job on keeping good Chemistry notes. As a result, I haven't been as studious with my Physiology notes. Josiah offered me a copy of his notes two weeks ago, and they have been of great help.
About a week ago, Kyra missed one day of Chemistry and I told her to stop by my work and I would get her a copy of what she had missed and catch her up. She shows up at work and I copy the days notes for her and tell her that she shouldn't expect this from me that often. What I meant was, take your own notes and if you miss something or wrote something down wrong, you can use mine. What she got out of the statement was, don't ever think that I will F***ing give you a copy of my notes ever again. She left and I thought nothing of the situation since I didn't think that I had done anything wrong.
About a week after that Kyra makes a phone call to me at work. She asks 3 times if she is being left out of the chemistry study sessions that we are having. (***NOTE*** WE ARE NOT HAVING STUDY SESSIONS) I told her we weren't having study sessions and she said that she didn't believe that. I asked her, what would provoke her to think such a thing. She said she has been listening to Nick and I's conversations for the past week and said that she has sufficient reason to believe that she is being left out. I reinforced to her that she was not being left out and that she will be informed when/where we get together. Once again, I didn't think that I had done anything wrong, b/c we haven't had any sessions to leave her out of. I didn't think anything of her call.
Test time is coming up soon for Physiology. Like I said earlier, I don't have a lot of the notes in great detail that are going to be on this upcoming test. So I was going to ask Josiah after class if he had finished with his notes and if it were possible for me to get a copy of them from him. Well I go to talk to him after class and when I exit the room, I see him down the hall. Naturally, Nick waited for me to get out of the room. I tell Nick, hey do you think that I should ask Josiah for his notes? Nick said, uh, I wouldn't count on it. I said, what? He said, yea I wouldn't count on it. So I look down the other end of the hall and I see a girl that none of us in our group like. So I think to myself, maybe Nick is hinting that I shouldn't mention it b/c the girl is right there, and Josiah may not want her to have a copy of the notes. So I drop the conversation until we reach the stairwell
While walking down the stairs, I ask Nick again, why don't you think I shouldn't count on it? He said, Think about it Ralph. I said, I'm not playing these mind games with you. Tell me why shouldn't I count on it.
He said that while him and Kyra were at lunch, Kyra told Nick, that she told Josiah about the way I was "withholding notes" from her in Chemistry and she told Josiah that she thinks that he shouldn't give me her notes. Nick told her that I didn't mean it the way she took it, but Kyra said she stands reason to think other wise.
SO, now I'm in the predicament where Josiah may or may not give me the notes before the test. And I could be in real trouble if I don't get a decent pair of notes to study. I called Josiah and acted like I didn't know. He told me he didn't know when he could get them to me, since he has two tests Monday. I don't know whether he is telling the truth or lieing to me.
I just think this is some stupid 5th grade shit. People need to act their age. If Kyra thinks I meant for her not to have my notes, then she should have addressed me with the issue.
Now I am in the situation where I can't say that I know anything to either Kyra or Josiah, b/c Nick was NEVER supposed to tell me...........
Once again, this is sooooooooooooooooo immature.
Well, I have to go study for my genetics test on Monday, I'm INSANELY behind. Kristen, I know you've already heard this, but Lindsay and Chelsie, feel free to post comments about what you think of the situation and how I should handle the situation
Groundwork---Last semester, I took Comparative Anatomy. It was during this time that Nick and I became great friends and also good study partners. Also in the mix were Kyra and Josiah, two premed students as well, whose ambition matches or surpasses Nick's and my own. Consequently, Kyra and Josiah became our study partners. This semester we are all taking Physiology together (it complements Comparative Anatomy).
This semester, as some of you know, I'm doing a kick ass job on keeping good Chemistry notes. As a result, I haven't been as studious with my Physiology notes. Josiah offered me a copy of his notes two weeks ago, and they have been of great help.
About a week ago, Kyra missed one day of Chemistry and I told her to stop by my work and I would get her a copy of what she had missed and catch her up. She shows up at work and I copy the days notes for her and tell her that she shouldn't expect this from me that often. What I meant was, take your own notes and if you miss something or wrote something down wrong, you can use mine. What she got out of the statement was, don't ever think that I will F***ing give you a copy of my notes ever again. She left and I thought nothing of the situation since I didn't think that I had done anything wrong.
About a week after that Kyra makes a phone call to me at work. She asks 3 times if she is being left out of the chemistry study sessions that we are having. (***NOTE*** WE ARE NOT HAVING STUDY SESSIONS) I told her we weren't having study sessions and she said that she didn't believe that. I asked her, what would provoke her to think such a thing. She said she has been listening to Nick and I's conversations for the past week and said that she has sufficient reason to believe that she is being left out. I reinforced to her that she was not being left out and that she will be informed when/where we get together. Once again, I didn't think that I had done anything wrong, b/c we haven't had any sessions to leave her out of. I didn't think anything of her call.
Test time is coming up soon for Physiology. Like I said earlier, I don't have a lot of the notes in great detail that are going to be on this upcoming test. So I was going to ask Josiah after class if he had finished with his notes and if it were possible for me to get a copy of them from him. Well I go to talk to him after class and when I exit the room, I see him down the hall. Naturally, Nick waited for me to get out of the room. I tell Nick, hey do you think that I should ask Josiah for his notes? Nick said, uh, I wouldn't count on it. I said, what? He said, yea I wouldn't count on it. So I look down the other end of the hall and I see a girl that none of us in our group like. So I think to myself, maybe Nick is hinting that I shouldn't mention it b/c the girl is right there, and Josiah may not want her to have a copy of the notes. So I drop the conversation until we reach the stairwell
While walking down the stairs, I ask Nick again, why don't you think I shouldn't count on it? He said, Think about it Ralph. I said, I'm not playing these mind games with you. Tell me why shouldn't I count on it.
He said that while him and Kyra were at lunch, Kyra told Nick, that she told Josiah about the way I was "withholding notes" from her in Chemistry and she told Josiah that she thinks that he shouldn't give me her notes. Nick told her that I didn't mean it the way she took it, but Kyra said she stands reason to think other wise.
SO, now I'm in the predicament where Josiah may or may not give me the notes before the test. And I could be in real trouble if I don't get a decent pair of notes to study. I called Josiah and acted like I didn't know. He told me he didn't know when he could get them to me, since he has two tests Monday. I don't know whether he is telling the truth or lieing to me.
I just think this is some stupid 5th grade shit. People need to act their age. If Kyra thinks I meant for her not to have my notes, then she should have addressed me with the issue.
Now I am in the situation where I can't say that I know anything to either Kyra or Josiah, b/c Nick was NEVER supposed to tell me...........
Once again, this is sooooooooooooooooo immature.
Well, I have to go study for my genetics test on Monday, I'm INSANELY behind. Kristen, I know you've already heard this, but Lindsay and Chelsie, feel free to post comments about what you think of the situation and how I should handle the situation