I've decided to defriend a few close friends. I updated my Friends Only post to include a few rules. Why I'm defriending is because of the first rule : I will not be friends with people who are friends with bullies ( or people who just love making me hurt for past sins no matter how much I apologize and try/want to move on) ,no matter how much I adore and cherish the friendship. It's not easy being friends with two people fighting. I'd rather bow out on friendly terms than end up hating or feuding with someone. To the ones I've defriended if you want to know the friends in question leave a comment ( comments will be screened to protect the 'bullies' usernames , a kindness that has not been given to me).
Now more than ever I need this to be a safe haven. With the upcoming surgery I need a place to cry, vent, and yell to.I'm so emotionally fragile it's pathetic. I need to elimate as much drama as possible which for a drama queen who attracts drama is quite hard :P .