I don't get it
I do not understand my ex at all. If it took more thought to procreate we never woulda managed to have The Boy cos we are obviously running on way different wave-lengths.
According to The Boy that man won't put him on the plane to come back for camp unless/until I buy a ticket for him to go back to his dads for the remaining two weeks before school. It doesn't look like I'm going to have the money for one. For two, between my brothers wedding (a whole nother post all on it's own), registering for school, getting his sports physical (show choir requires it), and getting senior pictures done we need all the time we can get before the first day of school.
Really I can't get past the fact he wouldn't drive The Boy to camp. It's a 13 hour round-trip drive from the ex's house to where camp is at. (same distance drive from my place too) I offered him gas money even and all he said was he would not be able to provide any transportation. No explanation, no alternatives offered. He couldn't beg, borrow or steal a car to take his kid to camp? I even offered gas money for fucks sake!
So, I really don't get it. It makes no sense and is giving me stress like crazy. Also the uncertainty The Boy is feeling over weather or not his dad is gonna let him go it camp is bringing him down and giving him less than positive feelings towards his dad. I told him tonight that no matter what he would be going to camp and not to let anything his dad said different affect him. How am I going to keep that promise and why am I the only one who seems to be thinking of what's best for The Boy?
Seriously, I could just cry.
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According to The Boy that man won't put him on the plane to come back for camp unless/until I buy a ticket for him to go back to his dads for the remaining two weeks before school. It doesn't look like I'm going to have the money for one. For two, between my brothers wedding (a whole nother post all on it's own), registering for school, getting his sports physical (show choir requires it), and getting senior pictures done we need all the time we can get before the first day of school.
Really I can't get past the fact he wouldn't drive The Boy to camp. It's a 13 hour round-trip drive from the ex's house to where camp is at. (same distance drive from my place too) I offered him gas money even and all he said was he would not be able to provide any transportation. No explanation, no alternatives offered. He couldn't beg, borrow or steal a car to take his kid to camp? I even offered gas money for fucks sake!
So, I really don't get it. It makes no sense and is giving me stress like crazy. Also the uncertainty The Boy is feeling over weather or not his dad is gonna let him go it camp is bringing him down and giving him less than positive feelings towards his dad. I told him tonight that no matter what he would be going to camp and not to let anything his dad said different affect him. How am I going to keep that promise and why am I the only one who seems to be thinking of what's best for The Boy?
Seriously, I could just cry.
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