Fun, excitement, drama?
Ok so the name is stolen but it does well to describe what I went though. Yes I had fun, yes I was having excitement, and yes I went though drama.
Why the drama?
Basicly when cookies broke up with me I was going to quit the game to make things easier and to put the LS a lot less trouble. I wanted cookies to play the game and function well and if I took everything back that would be hard for him. We had disagreements how to settle things and things went worse route. I was kicked from the LS and in the process of trying to explain my self Cookies ends up getting kicked as well. When this happened Cookies did something to my blog ( no idea what, I do not understand the things) so I was going to poke around in the web host I bought for him. About 2 weeks talking to site 5 I got adim accesses that I gave to a friend to find stuff for me because I was not able to understand a damn thing. He was not able to find my blog anywhere or my pics I stored on it so I told him to deleate Cookies’ thing. Cookies LJ info was incoded in the webhost so that is how he got into cookies LJ. I would not exactly call this a hack since the info was right there but the concept of being hacked is the same ( someone else you don’t want too getting into your things) I would like to take this time to note this friend made backups of everything but Cookies does not want to bother it no more. I thought cookies would not talk to me ever again after our brake-up augments witch led me posting this on his LJ and does express how I truly feel about things:
Friendship or relationship, no matter how you are interacting with someone, it has ups, downs, and misunderstandings. I for one get misunderstood by meny as most of you have seen. Why I did what I did, came from me not understanding as well, it is a two way street after all. When I saw there was no backup of my blog I took a hasty action I should not have but again the misunderstanding here was I thought cookies was not going to talk to me ever again. I shared many things with him and try to help him out, getting closer what he had of mine was a big ordeal for both of us and im sure it took a toll emotionally for both of us. Now that he has giving everything back I am writing on this day I will bother him anymore for gear or gil or that he owes me anything. As the above poster said we both learned a lesion here, you really have to be carful who accesses your account or has your information. I just hope someday he really sees how much I helped him get his foot in the door and that I did not mean to things to happen this way. I really did not want the outcome to end this way that is why I offered to quit that day he broke up with me. That day I found out I have more for me and I was not ready……
The double edge sword:
What I did was wrong but then again we both did wrong and as the old saying goes 2 wrongs does not make a right. Now I do not know why cookies spoke to me after doing what I did to him but it allow us to settle things once in for all and be friends again. I am happy with that.
The fun and excitement:
In the mist of things I was doing things with a friend where I beat SAM and RNG maat, leveling drg still and still trying to make plans for my maats cap. At one point one most see how to get things at his/her own pace and stop trying to be competitive with others. Maybe it did not work because I am not as fast as Cookies is but now I have a different friend to do things with where I am very happy with at the moment. To me I dislike soloing so for me it is really nice to have someone around. Maybe because of Cookies moving me to Asura I found someone to do things with, and I hope it stays that way :D
Why the drama?
Basicly when cookies broke up with me I was going to quit the game to make things easier and to put the LS a lot less trouble. I wanted cookies to play the game and function well and if I took everything back that would be hard for him. We had disagreements how to settle things and things went worse route. I was kicked from the LS and in the process of trying to explain my self Cookies ends up getting kicked as well. When this happened Cookies did something to my blog ( no idea what, I do not understand the things) so I was going to poke around in the web host I bought for him. About 2 weeks talking to site 5 I got adim accesses that I gave to a friend to find stuff for me because I was not able to understand a damn thing. He was not able to find my blog anywhere or my pics I stored on it so I told him to deleate Cookies’ thing. Cookies LJ info was incoded in the webhost so that is how he got into cookies LJ. I would not exactly call this a hack since the info was right there but the concept of being hacked is the same ( someone else you don’t want too getting into your things) I would like to take this time to note this friend made backups of everything but Cookies does not want to bother it no more. I thought cookies would not talk to me ever again after our brake-up augments witch led me posting this on his LJ and does express how I truly feel about things:
Friendship or relationship, no matter how you are interacting with someone, it has ups, downs, and misunderstandings. I for one get misunderstood by meny as most of you have seen. Why I did what I did, came from me not understanding as well, it is a two way street after all. When I saw there was no backup of my blog I took a hasty action I should not have but again the misunderstanding here was I thought cookies was not going to talk to me ever again. I shared many things with him and try to help him out, getting closer what he had of mine was a big ordeal for both of us and im sure it took a toll emotionally for both of us. Now that he has giving everything back I am writing on this day I will bother him anymore for gear or gil or that he owes me anything. As the above poster said we both learned a lesion here, you really have to be carful who accesses your account or has your information. I just hope someday he really sees how much I helped him get his foot in the door and that I did not mean to things to happen this way. I really did not want the outcome to end this way that is why I offered to quit that day he broke up with me. That day I found out I have more for me and I was not ready……
The double edge sword:
What I did was wrong but then again we both did wrong and as the old saying goes 2 wrongs does not make a right. Now I do not know why cookies spoke to me after doing what I did to him but it allow us to settle things once in for all and be friends again. I am happy with that.
The fun and excitement:
In the mist of things I was doing things with a friend where I beat SAM and RNG maat, leveling drg still and still trying to make plans for my maats cap. At one point one most see how to get things at his/her own pace and stop trying to be competitive with others. Maybe it did not work because I am not as fast as Cookies is but now I have a different friend to do things with where I am very happy with at the moment. To me I dislike soloing so for me it is really nice to have someone around. Maybe because of Cookies moving me to Asura I found someone to do things with, and I hope it stays that way :D